I'm insecure about my boobs?

I feel beyond ashamed and stupid to admit this but here it goes, bare with me.

I've been on a particular forum for a couple of years now and it wasn't until last year that I began actively using it. I only created a profile 'just in case' I needed to ask a question because at that point I was fed up with a particular answers site associated with a certain search engine.

Anyways, on the forum I guess you could call it, it came to my attention that big areolas are considered less attractive than smaller areolas to guys. Which is fine, but after seeing guys constantly talk about their disgust at big areolas and how much of a turnoff they are, it's left me feeling extremely insecure. And alot of the girls on there make comments about salami nipples and bologna nipples and how happy they are that theirs are cute and small, of course they direct those comments at me :/ I literally hate my breasts and I realize the more time I spend on that site the more I feel worse about myself.

My boobs:
C cup, but unfortunately they aren't perky :/ which sucks. I'm hoping weight loss and weight training will correct it? will it? lol any experiences?
The areolas themselves are 2 inch circles, dark because I'm multiracial and happen to be part black.
They are super sensitive and my 2 favorite things about them are that they are perfectly circular and they are super sensitive.

I don't want bashing of small areolas, that's not what i'm looking for, I'm just looking for a way to make peace with my body. I hate that I'm actually considering surgery to reduce my areolas.

I feel ashamed to admit this because I normally play it off like the comments do not offend me but they really do. Now that I'm 18 I think it's gotten me to think about surgery in a serious way.

any advice?

 

What the hell kinda forum are you on, and why the hell are you there?

I've seen quite a few of these now, people talking about SURGERY, going under the fucking KNIFE, because of the size of their nipples, of all silly things. Are we talking about like, 6 inches across or something?

 

My dick kinda tingled while reading the second part of your post.

Who cares! find mister right and such things will seem trivial to you.

 

It's a forum aimed at young adults and teens but anybody can use the site. I don't wanna say the name because I don't wanna be linked back there and I'm not sure if it's against the rules on here. I'm on there cause it kills time.

No, it's 2 inches in diameter...

 

2" is fine. Dont sweat it. And with as sensitive as you say they are just amkes your mans job all the easier, he shouldnt be bitching. Find a man, not a boy looking for a barbie doll where all the parts are cookie cutter maybe?

 

But I mean, what if I find a guy who feels the same as those guys? A guy who thinks big ones are disgusting and gross and perhaps even a dealbreaker? It's not easy to move on from being rejected for something you're insecure about

 

if he has a problem with your boobs and that is a dealbreaker, he is an asshole and you shouldnt be with him...

a real men who likes you 'for who you are' wont have a problem with them...

...dont panic, youre ok

 

You seem too insecure about rejection.

I can honestly say working as a bartender for two years that not once have I heard of a guy dumping a girl because of their nipple size, and I've heard just about every other reason though.

 

I think that there's a song called "I'm looking for love in all the wrong places".
Get out of that LOSER website.

You know there's very probably guys out there who think that big is unique and different. With attitudes like, Wow, Cool, I've never seen that before. How unique!"

I look at these kinds of thing as, There are all different flavors in life. Kind of like ice cream. What a wonderful thing! Just be proud of who you are and what YOU've got. That's your flavor of sexy. Take all of you and make it an awesome. you. Use it. Be it.

You know. This is yet another reason to run away and join the hippies.
They're much more accepting. Of everyone. Open. Not judgmental.
Maybe you should run away and join the hippies. LOL Of, course, I mean that as just an expression. And Yet the though does have merit.

Here's a hippie therapy exercise for you. Fantasize, that you're in a hippie commune cool old house and you invited a bunch of hansom cool guys over. (Three, more, you pick the number) Things get exciting and they all end up massaging you. Whoa. And you end up fining out that you are awesome and very well though of.

Try this exercise daily, for a month. It should work wonders for your self esteem. You should end up feeling like the queen of the world.

If, after one month, this doesn't help. Then if you are of age, perhaps you need to go out look for a real hippie commune cool old house. Then try three to six times a day for at lease six months.

Have a good life. Live it.

And good luck.

 

Every guy I talk to says they just love boobs. They never specify a certain type or size. I think guys are generally just happy to have a set of boobies to play with.

Most girls with perky boobs and small nipples also have small boobs. Most girls with bigger boobs also have a bit of sagging and larger nipples. Girls with perfectly round yet large breasts and small nippes are rare and they probably start aspiring to pose for Playboy by the time they're 16, thus negating any worthwhile life ambitions.

So you see, there are trade-offs with any breast size.

Someone posted a link to this site on another "insecure about my boobies" thread...maybe it will help.

http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php

 

I don't think if you were in a situation getting it on with your BF he would say anything. Those boys on that other site are just pretending and putting on a front.

If you were 1 on 1 with them, I highly doubt they would complain.

Also remember you are a Natural C-Cup...... Love it!!! And when you her girls saying they wish they had bigger boobs stick yours out a little more and be proud of them!!

 

Yeah, but it's so hard to not think that they are unattractive because that's all I have gathered from the site I hang out on. Some even go as far as to say they will only date a girl with small areolas and it saddens me a little because I never had a problem with my boobs until that site.

Maybe it has to do with how many of them are virgins? idk

 

It has to do with them being immature.

Leave that site and stick it out here:2thumbsup::love:

They aren't unattractive, and trust me as a woman with larger boobs....... many guys will love them :devil:

 

I'm kinda turned off by your insecurity though...

work on that.

 

I hope so. Cause I don't see anything wrong with them visually and I would hope a bf wouldn't

 

You could always post a nip shot and let us be the judge?? Just sayin'.

 

Or not haha

 

I need to stay out of these kind of arguments sometime.

 

Who is arguing?

 

I was trying to start one, and upon failing concede I should stay out of them.