i'm in need of some cheering from Rainbow Mamas....

i could use a circle, if THAT'S possible here on the forums. so, here's the deal....

i was supposed to leave my home state almost a week ago with a little chicky i met not too long ago. hooked a job to put some money away for us, bought camping gear, and then quit my job the day before we "LEFT". after i quit, the next day i talk to her and she says she's not sure and she'll talk to me about it. i don't hear from her for a week and then she strolls into my buddies place, where i'm staying until i leave, and all she does is wave at me and walks by. like, "YOU'VE got NOTHING to SAY to ME?!?!?" wha-wha-WTF?!?

so, just before a left a little while later, i stop by the room and see waht's doin' and STILL, i get no explaination. so i says to her, "thanks for blowin me off, thanks for letting me quit my job. yada yada...."

and she gives me this LOOK that says "what the hell's YOU'RE problem???" and ofcourse i just leave in a huff.


so, i'm hurt and feel so let down and led on by some pretty smile and a little ass that made me think that maybe i had a shot to get in her pants and be her man out on the road. i'm PISSED TOO!! at myself AND HER! i guess i just need some words from somebody. and please let those words be comforting and helpful. i could really do without listening to some feminist spout off at me on how men have nothing to complain about.

i'm really sorry if that last thing offends anyone, wasn't trying to.....

- Gypsy Joe

 

wow man, i am really sorry to hear about that. i'd be pissed to and hurt. i'd think most guys wouldn't really care and would just leave without her. it says alot that you do care and stuck around. she needs to wake up and at least give you an explaination if nothing more.
i wish you the best of luck. have you talked to her about this, have you asked her what her deal is?? did she just say completly nothing to you?

 

Now that sounds like a self-centered bitch - "Oh, look at me, nothing matters in the world except me. I can string people along and then blow them off like corn flakes. It actually doesn't matter. It's not that I don't care about hurting their feelings, it's that they shouldn't even have feelings. Why else would I be so surprised when galagala gets pissed off."


...yeah

 

I'm truely sorry to hear about your bad luck. maybe it ws best that you found out how she was before you got out on the road with her. Sometimes its hard out on the road, and if your traveling together it takes both of you all working together. Maybe fate saved you a little trouble.


On the bright side, things will get better. Maybe she just wasn't the right girl for you. Maybe you'll find her out on the road. I wish you much luck and love.
I'm sending you good energy and love.

Sweet Pea

 

Gah, I'm really sorry. Would it be possible to talk to the people where you used to work and see if you can get your job back. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Have you heard her explaination yet?

 

your plans shouldnt be influenced by some Babylon bitch ..

if your desire was to roam,you should get up off yer ass and roam..

so you wernt right fer her mind. oh fuckin well..

sounds like she may have had a reason to bug out...

 

maybe she's not ready to go yet. was it your idea or hers for you two to leave?

 

thanks for all your replies. i'm feeling much better now that some time has passed. i hope i can answer all your questions....

no, she has STILL given me NO explanation, WHAT SO EVER!

it was OUR idea to leave and she led me on right up until to last minute.

yes, i'm very glad that i found out what she was really about before we left.

no, i won't be getting my job back.

yes, i'm still going to leave. in less than two weeks. gonna, bus part of the way and then hitch from NC to the Gathering in Ocala.

i hope i see all of you, if not some, at the gathering. keep an ear out for Gypsy Joe and his bright green fender strat! at the VT gathering, some folks named me "Mr. Pitch". does it mean that THAT'S my Rainbow Name? i kinda like it but, i think "Gypsy Joe" suits me best.

LOVIN' YOU!!!!!

 

better to be left high and dry when you wernt in a jam.... doesnt sound like a worthy road partner to me... be happy...

 

good luck gala

 

Good luck on your travels, it sounds like this chick wasn't worth traveling with anyway...

 

women! *sigh*

oh well at least you found out what a bitch she is before you were stuck with her!

 

R2 and I refer to you as "Jukebox Joe", due to your incredible ability to bust out ANY song at the drop of a hat!

It's good to see you're still around! Maybe I'll be seein' you this summer! --Calico--

 

HOLY SHIT!!!!!!! last time i saw YOU TWO we parted ways in Boston and i left the road to take care of some "legal issues". HOW the HELL are ya'? and WHERE??? will you be @ Ocala?

 

I know I may come off as sounding bitchy here, but why has no one asked this bro (galagala) why he only wanted cheering from Rainbow Mamas? So I'll ask...

Bro-why do you only want cheering from Rainbow Mamas? Even though you've accepted some cheering from a couple of Bros, I find it rather concerning that you only asked for sisters to post.

Cinnamon

 

.

 

sorry, i thought i made that kinda clear. i wanted the experience of being the male half in a relationship while on the road.

why did i want cheering from MAMA'S ONLY???..... 'cause i'm sick of hearing from bro's most of the time and i wanted to hear a few females say "yeah, that girl's a bitch"-sorta thang.....

that's ok, right? i mean, Rainbow Land isn't all about non-gender-bias-Nazism is it? i can still have "preferences" even though i love the earth and all of my brothers and sisters, right? it's not a problem, is it?

 

I waited several days before I said anything in the hopes that someone who is gentler with their words would say something...I tend to be blunt and to the points at times...

Galagala- There wasn't anything 'wrong' with asking only sisters to post...I was just wondering... that and there are several sisters I know of that would have been wary of posting or even reading a thread with this title but would offered you some cheer if the post hadn't been gender biased.

And as far as dissing your (ex)chick, well I find it easier to look for good points, like the fact that at least she didn't leave you high & dry while you were on the road. I can't diss her without knowing what her side of the story is. Hopefully you will find that there is someone else out there for you, maybe a soul mate


Cinnamon

 

this is kinda humorous to me. ok, so actually, she wasn't "my chick" or anything. i didn't intend to give that impression. just a cute friendly girl i met and we shouldn't have thought of making plans like this b/c there really wasn't even a relationship in the first place. and the title of the post, yeah i see your point but, when you're alone on a computer late at night and posting while stoned, you get a little loose with your way of phrasing, ya' know?

so anyways... BIG ANOUNCEMENT!!!!

the situation has been defused and requires no more attention or contemplation. thank you, everyone, for your words of insight or opinion and your encouragement to keep on keepin' on!

see y'all in Ocala!

-Gypsy Joe

 

.