I'm horrible with the ladies

I really am. I get glances and looks quite a bit, but I never know if it's just someone looking at me, so I take no action. I just brush it off and keep walking. If I have no reason to talk to a girl, I don't. I'm not very sociable when I don't need to be, extremely friendly, but suck at starting a conversation with the girls =( lol

Just ranting.

 

You're hot, you just need confidence.



And less married women!

 

Just try it sometime. I'd go up to you and say hi if I saw you somewhere.

 

Haha, thanks. And yeah......definitely less married women.

I'm pretty confident. Not overly. I don't think I'm the greates looking guy in the world, but I think I'm attractive. I'm just deathly shy, especially with girls.

Girls are mean. lol

 

Most guys have that problem.

 

Yeah, me too. Let's just go gay. Seems easier.

 

Your hot. Chicks are gonna melt in your hand, sugar.
Just be confident, give a nice hello, and come up with a simple pick up line. Just mention something about how pretty they are or if you like something they are wearing.

 

I agree. Gays are definitely attracted to me. I had a guy come up to me the other day at the beach trying to get my number. I had one that was kind of creepy stalker for a while.

 

Possible rejection is worth finding someone cool.
(which is advice for me, too, I know it's easier said than done.)

 

*note to self*

tell them they pretty and dress nice

 

no worries man, it takes longer for men to get into the swing of things. i tend to wait it out until they make the first move anymore. your time will come and your mamma will be there, u dont want her first impression of you as tryin to mac on all 'the ladies'

a good tip though is to never ever ever use the term 'the ladies'. it is a very powerful term only to be used extreemely rarely in the most sarcastically hillarious moments. when used improperly it makes you sound like a pig.
just be yourself, live life, dont be afraid to talk to anyone. but remember this, the friend zone is the end zone. so if youre into that special someone, dont be afraid to make an obvious flirtation attempt. it dont have to be smooth, its actually better if its akward. its all about the effort.
i am assuming your looking for just 1 girl to have a relationship with. if however your just looking for a few women to have some fun with, and theres not too much wrong with that, try this one out. 'hey i got an idea, lets go somewhere and make out' chicks are a hell of alot hornier then guys.

 

Just don't drool this time! :tongue:

 

The chicks definitely aren't melting in my hands. I haven't really been with a girl for about 3 years. I've had flings, but it hasn't amounted to more than that since my last girlfriend and I split, and we were VERY serious. I've never been comfortable with sex outside of a relationship, unless it's with someone I really have feelings for. Because of that, in the past 3 years, I've had sex maybe about 10 times. I don't need sex in the least bit, so it's not much of a problem with me. I mostly like the companionship of a relationship. Sex is secondary.

I definitely agree, just building the nerve to make the move is the hard part. lol

 

That really works???

 

Chew gum, it sounds corny, but girls love it.

 

That's because you're afraid of rejection. Work on that... gotta be okay with a girl saying "no" and not be shattered by it. Set the thought in your mind that it would be her privilege to spend time with you and instead of timidly, fearfully making a move and emotionally cringing at the expected sting of rejection, offer her the privilege of your company and if she refuses it's HER loss, not yours! Carry yourself with the confidence that comes from KNOWING that there's nothing wrong with you... that there's something wrong with the woman who would refuse you... and by doing so she is doing you a favor! Don't invest any expectations in the outcome. A successful fisherman throws many back before he gets a keeper.

 

It may not always flatter someone but it does get the conversation started.

 

I was kidding man.

Not that theres anything wrong with that if you're gay. But if not, brush yourself off, come up with something interesting to say, and go introduce yourself to like 10 women today. Don't just introduce yourself to ones you think are cute either, just a whole bunch of women.

Learn to talk, we have to do all the hunting. Go get your fangs wet.

By which I mean eat pussy.

 

are you kidding me? yes. although im not sure if 'works' is the right word. but women are very concious of thier clothes and appearance, even hippie girls that dont shave. but you cant fake it, you cant say, hey i like those shoes, if they are some normal, or ugly shoes, you really have to look for something that is nice, or something that they are sporting, and be genuine about it. and if you pick out the right thing and have the same input on it that they think, a girl will be so happy with herself that she wont even notice any of your negative qualities.

 

Wow. I can't muster a reply to that. I can't express how thoughtful that sounded. Thanks, man.

You know. I might just go downtown this evening, to the blockparty. Enjoy a few beers, maybe smoke a bowl beforehand to losen up and attempt conversation.