everything gets under my skin. i don't even live a stressful life but i feel so anxious all the time. i take everything so fucking seriously and it's really wearing me down. i feel like being a pussy and not choke back the tears for once. what a bad way to spend a life.
you sure sound stress out to me! i'm a guy (male) and if you feel like crying... GO THE FUCK AHEAD AND DO IT! that does not make you a "pussie!" it takes one hell of a strong man to cry! only real pussies don't cry. crying is a part of what makes us human. if you disown that part of yourself you become less then human. i cry at times, and guess what? most people like me even more for doing it! some people are turn off by it. that's their god damm problem and not mine. go ahead and cry. you'll feel tired and weak afterwards, and that is because you have de-stress, and you may sleep after crying, but you'll feel one hell of alot better and be one hell of alot healther too! please check back and let me know how your doing.
learn not to care about insignificant shit, find something you enjoy so you're not so depressed. if you feel like crying, go for it. but probably better if you do it in the privacy of your own home/room
I was like that for a while. For me, it was just something I grew out of. I learned to realize that not everyone lives by the same standard as me, so I stopped worrying about other people (except the few people I keep very close to me). I realized that it's important to take time for myself and fuck everyone else for a little while each day. Somehow, taking an ethics class actually helped me a lot... I know when I get seriously stressed, my coping mechanism is to go abstract and think, dude... what if we had all stayed cavemen? Getting chased by lions and shit... and how did we get to this point where we send these kids out of our homes to learn stuff that the government thinks we should all know when we could all still be running around the wilderness with dirty hair eating bugs? It's a little side-trip I take sometimes to put things into perspective... The only problem is, sometimes I think we should have stayed out in the woods rather than cutting them down and building skyscrapers on top of them... Come to think of it, maybe you shouldn't listen to me :tongue: JK, just try to hang loose, fella. Cry if you need to. It's cleansing.
yea man you should seriously cry i have this guy friend and he cant cry like hes tried and tried but he cant and the last time he did was when his best friend tried to commit suicide dont bottle it up just let it out!
Philly... 18... i think i know your problem... They call it the city of brotherly love.... that place breeds no hope.... EXPAND YOUR HORIZONS.... take a vacation....
i used to be the same way a couple years ago i would be stressed out and anxious all the time and took life very seriously and it made me really depressed.. then one day i decided to just snap out of it. i deleted all the negative shit out of my life and learned to not take life so seriously. that's what you need to do, believe me.. it helps and oh you shouldn't hold in your emotions or try to choke back your tears, every once in awhile you need to just let it all out and have a good cry. i still do that sometimes, it makes you feel a lot better afterwards instead of always bottling up your emotions.
