i'm a virgin... does it hurt the first time?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by iscreamchocolate, Oct 30, 2004.

  1. iscreamchocolate

    iscreamchocolate Senior Member

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    hi.. ummm I'm a virgin *blushes* ummm yea... and I was king of wondering if it hurts A LOT the first time you kind of have sex?? ummm just wondering... i know this is probably a stupid question... It's just that I don't thinbk I want to look forward to sex if it just hurts like hell.. I mean I'm certainly not looking for the pain.. if it hurts and stuff... and is it really as good as people say?? and also does your orgasm last long? or not? umm sorry.. I feel very stupid
     
  2. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    yep.
    generally no not the first time
    i don't think the length of orgasm would change.
     
  3. Soulless||Chaos

    Soulless||Chaos SelfInducedExistence

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    Only one way to find out... And I'll glady offer my services! :D
     
  4. psilonaut

    psilonaut Mushroom Muncher

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    Just be sure to take it slow....best way around the pain is to play with yourself first...I won't get into details for fear of sounding like more of a pervert than I allready am....
     
  5. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    Yeah it does sorry ): My first time hurt a lot but it felt really good too and was with someone who I knew cared about me at the time. I have never had an orgasm so I don't know how to answer that question.
     
  6. FallenFairy

    FallenFairy Senior Member

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    yes it hurts like hell. imagine a hole about an inch around and sticking something 1to 2 inches thick in that hole repeatedly. it hurts like abitch.
     
  7. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    just make sure it's special and that you won't regret it and that you've been with the person awhile and you won't think about the pain.
     
  8. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    oh and being really drunk helps too :)
     
  9. thisismike

    thisismike Overlooked/Uninvited

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    I find most women who have sex with me, like to do be drunk at the time...
     
  10. kjhippielove88

    kjhippielove88 color + rhyme

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    im a virgin too...oh well. anyone wanna change that?
     
  11. innocentpoison333

    innocentpoison333 Member

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    At first it hurts, it hurts more while it is entering but as he slides in and starts to move it starts to feel better... It also hurts the first couple time it's something you have to work at, and get use too lol
     
  12. vanilla

    vanilla Member

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    Sorry.. but it does hurt so make sure that you're with someone special. It helps alot.
     
  13. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    hehe :) oh and thanks for you comment in my gallery awhile back Ruby (my dog) appreciattes hers too :)
     
  14. psilonaut

    psilonaut Mushroom Muncher

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    *raises hand* but last time I checked thats illegal in the states....oops *lowers hand*
     
  15. Soulless||Chaos

    Soulless||Chaos SelfInducedExistence

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    Again, my services are available to any who may need them... :D
     
  16. juicy_redgirl

    juicy_redgirl Daphney

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    It didn't hurt for me...I guess I got lucky.
     
  17. little_bug

    little_bug Member

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    it didn't hurt for me either... how strange. i must be either lucky or very weird. i just can't remember it hurting at all. i remember it being a bit of a non-event as far as i was concerned, to be perfectly honest! *sigh*
    xxx
     
  18. HydroNchronic413

    HydroNchronic413 Member

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    yes, it hurt A LOT for me the first time, probably because he didnt listen to me when i told him to go slow...and he put me in a lot of different positions. But even before that when he first put it in, that was the most painful part. It's different for everyone. If you relax and if you're wet then it's easier. It's better if you're high.
     
  19. guardian_tnaos

    guardian_tnaos Member

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    i really didn't expect it to hurt, but it did. it hurt alot, and he didn't even have a big piece. about a week later i realized you can't spread your legs as wide with your pants still on...
     
  20. Alomiakoda

    Alomiakoda Boniface McSporran

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    It really hurt for me :(

    Luckily I didn't bleed but a lot of people seem to.
     

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