im a virgin but

i dnt like the fact that the girl who im going to have sex with has slept with others guys. and also seen the last guy who she fcuked so it brothers me , how can i deal with this?? i dnt want to sound all holy but the fact that other guys have been inside of her gets to me! i know alot of girls now are have certain amount of lovers in there past but i gets to me..

 

me too homeslice, i dont know what to tell u. i just try not to think about it when im getting head or anything...id like the awnser to the same question,

 

ha!! im not alone thank god. but to b honest i just want to get rid of my "virginity" it get annoying that fact that sum girls wont give me time just cuz im a virgin. i think i would b more relax if i lost it ......

 

fall in love with someone then you wont give a fuck, also stop thinking with your cocks.

 

Get over it

 

I just wanted to say I think its awesome when a guy is still a virgin. Also I feel the same way like a guy won't give me the time of day since I am a virgin. I like being a virgin cause I don't feel like I just want to lose it to anyone. Also, with your girlfriend. It comes down to if you love her or not. It shouldn't matter if you love her. Who cares about the last guys she slept with, she is with you so they obiviously did something wrong.

 

thank you but shes not my girlfirend shes just constantly offers sex to me but not directly but hints it AAALLLOOOTTT, im not in too her either ...i just want to get it over

 

i hope this wasnt a female:toetap05:

 

Well, here's a female saying it for you: Get over it.

If you're that insecure, you probably shouldn't be having sex.

 

if you're too insecure about having sex in the first place, then imo you aren't ready for sex because, especially if there are consequences.

 

or maybe i dont want to sick my dick in a DIRTY vagina? thought about that?

 

ok ok i love the way my dicks looks nor did i mention any thing about my FIRST time. REREAD THE POST THREE MORE times what does it have to do with it b first time?

 

I wouldn't be having sex with someone I don't care about even if she offers.

 

funny how there are a lot of girls overhere. i guess oits the same for the womens talk section of the forum, crowded with men who want to know what women think.

i lost my virginity to a girl who had quite some guys already. it never really bothered me. it sounds like you really wanna lose your virginity, but not just quickly to some girl you kinda know, for once.

i hope you find a girl you'd like to get into a relationship with, i geuss that's what ur ultimately looking for. btw don't get drunk in the presence of that girl that's after you, you might regret it.

 

get more secure with who you are before you start thinking about having intimacy with another human being, you are not ready

(brought to you by the insecure virgins of america)

 

Well this may be a difficult concept to grasp, but a man has the right to say "no" to having sex with a woman. Even if she's willing, even if he's horny, if there's something about the situation he doesn't like--he can say no.

And the whole thing's illogical. It bothers him that "other guys have been inside of her" but he wants to become one of them, and yet at the same time he doesn't. If those "other guys" have made her dirty, then you're about to join the dirty people, pal. Either decide that it's not so bad after all, or decide that you won't do it.

 

^^ Nail and head

 

yeh i notice my response were for women LOL in a mens thread!(no problem with that) yeh i do want to lose it! some girl dont respect me for that..and thats what brothers me. I think im just going to sum sumone to love then for there physical appearance...

 

yeh i figure in to just saying no, and i also that about that i will b join that same boat of guys that shes been with. Im not really into her life style but she constantly gives me signal and its annoying!!