I'm a Guy. I need some Female opinion.(pictures)

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by EvanTree, Oct 8, 2012.

  1. EvanTree

    EvanTree Member

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    Ok...So this has nothing to do with Sex, and I probably won't even get a response with such a random post.... but here's the thing..

    I am a guy that is what you would call slightly 'Androgynous' and I just find myself hating it more and more. I love women and im not gay even in the slightest. Ive been told by some people that I am "Easy on the eyes" etc...Ive always been slightly 'Feminine' in the sense that I have thin hands and my face isn't what people call "Masculine." Fuck..Im 20 years old and Ive never even shaved before, I have thick facial hair but it grows very slowly...I Have some strong masculine features...Like I have broader shoulders than any Guy I know.

    I just need Female opinion on the way that I look because ive never had a girlfriend or anything like that...Basically just to see if Girls are even attracted to me.



    http://www.flickr.com/photos/88251008@N05/8067701190/

    http://www.flickr.com/photos/88251008@N05/8067702564/
     
  2. Bent Cold Sidewalk

    Bent Cold Sidewalk Member

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    I'm afraid to look LMAO
     
  3. EvanTree

    EvanTree Member

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    lmao...

    :/
     
  4. pipgirl

    pipgirl Member

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    are you kidding me?
     
  5. EvanTree

    EvanTree Member

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    No I'm not kidding.

    Im aware this post will come of as extremely ridiculous/ funny to most people though...
     
  6. Fairlight

    Fairlight Banned

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    You're very handsome...I'm sure a lot of girls would really fancy you.
     
  7. kush&kittys

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    awe! your a cutie. im clueless as to why some girl hasn't scooped you up!
     
  8. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    I think u need to bulk up. In my opinion you look like a child in those pics and well you are young but not that young. Try gaining a little weight and working out. Also u seem to have low self esteem and we can smell it on u. I feel that by working out and getting/feeling strong you will become more confident.
     
  9. Yellow_Forager

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    I think you're grand. Not my type but certainly the type of guy my friends go for.
    You're a good looking chap.
     
  10. EvanTree

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    Yes..I am told by everyone I look like a child...:/

    I am actually starting to work out more starting today infact...I am naturally very thin and Lightweight, but Ive always been stronger than most guys, even guys that work out. I can rep 35lbs curls and I don't even work out...I guess Today is good day to start though!

    And youre right I have had low self esteem for a while..I understand that women are attracted to that 'Fire' if you will in a man's confidence.

    Though I find it quite unfair to expect so much from a male, as he HAS to be the most confident person in the world, but I understand why it makes men unattractive...
     
  11. Bent Cold Sidewalk

    Bent Cold Sidewalk Member

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    Yeah dude seriously, you not bad!
     
  12. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    if you've never shaved, and you have absolutely no facial hair in the pics, what makes you say you have thick facial hair?

    you look like an average skinny guy to me.
     
  13. EvanTree

    EvanTree Member

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    Quite a random thing to point out from my entire post, but...

    I have a beard, it's very short and grows very slow...when I say it is thick I mean its not like peach fuzz puberty hair..lol.

    My hair is not BLACK, my beard will be a golden white color when it grows out, that is why you can't see it.

    ..I guess NOT average for a guy would be Huge buff and hairy looking? I don't know, that seems pretty common place to me..:biker:

    Thank you to all the other women in this thread for your compliments, though I don't really know if you're just being kind.
     
  14. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    the beard thing stood out to me because i was a little confused by the apparent contradiction.

    yes, huge and buff would be not average for a skinny guy, but i just meant you're not super hot but not at all bad looking either. but then, i'm a straight guy so i'm not entirely qualified to be making that judgment anyway.
     
  15. EvanTree

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    LOL..

    Thought you were a Chick with that name xD

    I'm working on becoming 'Buff', I build muscle very easily...But I will never look 'Gorrila' buff if you will...

    But ya I don't really understand what is wrong with my beard though...Ive literally never shaved in my life, it just grows super slow. O_0
     
  16. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    Do you act male? Do you have a deep voice? Are you sporty? Are you cool and hip? Your body is nice. Your face is nice. All that other stuff I are things that cause me to be attracted, however. I can see you with a ballerina or someone very dainty and quiet. No boisterous alpha female will see you romantically.
     
  17. EvanTree

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    I have a pretty deep voice yes...And I act 'Male' in my own way.

    Most of societies ideas of what a "Male" should act like are pretty shallow and dumb though...For instance...I am not interested in football...

    I don't really believe in an 'alpha female' all of those stereotypes can be easily broken. I am not really attracted to Girls that act confident anyways, I am rather attracted to shy girls, as I feel most Guys are...
     
  18. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    well.....your pic and soliticitations for opinions is EXACTLY all about stereotypes. We're relying only on a visual.
     
  19. EvanTree

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    You're right...But I am not trying to solicit. I am being completely sincere.

    Infact I'm almost embarrassing myself by letting complete strangers know so much about me...
     
  20. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    Solicit in that you asked for opinion. Again, your looks are great, but those other "stereotypes" appeal to me. I also like musicians and artists.....so sports isn't the only thing.
     

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