which is highly unlikely, I want something different from the traditional style. I'm not too impressed by diamonds. Some women like them. It urks me to hear a woman complaining about the size of her ring. A guy goes to the trouble to buy you a diamond, and you want to bitch about how small it is? I'm sorry, but I just don't get it. Diamonds are expensive, and when it comes right down to it, not that personal. I want romance, baby. I want a transparent glass or hard plastic ring with a lock of my husband's hair running through it. I'll put a lock of my own hair in his ring, too. Ok, a bizarre idea, I know, but that's how my mind works. I also think that the traditional wedding dress wouldn't work for me. I've had a few ideas, but I think I'd like a dress that is made to look like a groom's tux, only feminine. I have no idea how the hell the groom would wear a tux made to look like a wedding dress, without it looking ridiculous. My sense of humor leads me to want a somewhat humorous wedding, which is why the reverse outfits sounded funny to me. I don't know exactly how it would look to have the groom dressed like a chick in a bride's dress and me like a dude in a tux. Perhaps, I should think about this more. God knows, I've got all the time in the world to come up with something.LOL.
Yeah, but tattoos are permenant, and I somehow have the feeling that if I do ever get married, my husband will make me want to divorce him by expecting me to get along with his girlfriend. Men seem to totally disregard marriage when it comes to their physical attraction to other women. Makes me mad. I mean, if you don't want to be with just one woman, don't marry her. It's that simple. I'm never getting married. It will be a disaster, I just know it.
I hate my nasty attitude towards men, I really do. The thing is, every time I drop the attitude, and give one a chance to show me what they're made of, they always fail. Their own determination to have me and another girl on the side is so strong until it's impossible for me to even deal with them. In their minds, it is perfectly alright to tell a girl you want only her, then run off to be with another. It's their lack of a conscience, I think. Bottom line is, they are incapable of love, incapable of emotions, it's all physical. Odd thing is, every time one of them thinks he's in love, it always ends up being with the one girl who everybody in the whole damned world has been with. I cannot count the number of men who have told me, "Well, I was in love once, but she slept with everybody behind my back." I just don't have it in me to cheat on a guy, and it's a shame,too because if I slept with everybody, he'd follow me around like a God damned puppy. Sick.
ring tats aren't very permanent... i had a friend who got one and it faded fast. the tattooist said they usually have to retouched every few years.... just to let ya know i don't know what to say to the rest of that :/ stuff like tha tmakes me nervous
Nope, no freaky voodoo junk. I just thought a lock of hair inside a ring is more romantic and personal. It's not like I want to wear the dude's blood in a vial around my neck or anything. But then, I might have expected the voodoo comment from GermanLoveMachine. This is the same dude who finds it impossible to think of anything but the physical when it comes to women. I can see how anything beyond a pair of boobs might spook him into confusing it with voodoo. If he cannot stand the thought of having one ounce of emotion, I can't expect him to see the romance in a lock of hair. I'm sorry, but that's just how I feel. I know GLM feels with his hands, so...it's pointless to try and reason.
Thank you. Finally someone gets me. I might have known it would be a female though.LOL. See, this is what I'm saying. Men just don't get romance. Too bad neither one of us is gay. We'd be much better off, I'm sure.LOL.
Yeah, the "higher level" being their hands working their way up to your boobs.LOL. Hey, I'm just giving you a hard time, here. Deep down, I don't really hate men. I'm just hurt by some of their actions, that's all. I think a lot of men believe I'm one of those women who fantasizes about cutting a man's pee pee off or something. No way. I would never do something so horrible. I couldn't even kick a guy in the crotch, unless he was a mugger or something. I might get mad at men from time to time, but I'd be more likely to go cry in another room than cause them any bodily harm. I'm so soft hearted, it's pathetic. It is for this reason, that men take advantage of me. And they have cooties too.LOL. Boy, am I a big mush or what?
You need to start believing in violence. I tell guys up front that if they hurt me in any way then I will physically hurt them. But yeah I don't date anymore because it's just too much of a hassle. I used to say that I would be a lesbian if I could. BUT the chicks in my classes get on my nerves. I can uderstand why most guys get bored. I'm sick of most of these girls after two days. And with you being a man hater - it's not going to get any better.
I don't really hate men, not deep down. I just hate some of their actions. Every time I think I can forget what jerks they can be, one of the men in my family hits his girlfriend or gets arrested or cheats. CyndiLou knows what I'm talking about. I got a whole mess of men assholes in my family who are wreaking (sp?) total havoc on the rest of the world, Cyndi's family included.Long story.
