i was exposed to the gay community last night.

your sexual choice is your choice i have nothing against homosexuals, but the overly eccentric in your face stone wall homosexuals is too much for me. i was extremely uncomfortable. i mean come on why do you wear your sexuality on your sleeve, i am talking about heterosexual in your face with their straitness people too. your sexuality is your business not everybody else's. what are you trying to prove?

 

I 100% agree. Overly flamboyant homosexuals make me very uncomfortable, and I'm not a homophobe (attended a gay wedding, grew up around lots of gay women).

It's just annoying. You're gay, we get it. Now stop making a spectacle out of it.

 

if there wasn't such a thing as homophobia, probably not a lot.

 

like straight couples kissing in public.. The nerve them people..

 

right, it's like people who wear led zeppelin shirts, or hemp jewelry, what you smoke or what you listen to is your business and no one elses.

 

eh, people have a right to be annoyed by what they're annoyed by just the same as people have the right to be annoying.

 

Ya, like the OP mentioned.

There are some annoying people in the world, at least the gay ones aren't reproducing.

 

Heteros should be ashamed of bigotry against homosexuals.

But should heteros be ashamed of feeling revulsion at the thought and the sight of two men making out?



(I say "men", cos, let's face it, two women making out isn't going to provoke the same kind of revulsion in men or women. Am I wrong?)

 

Yeah, no nervous displays. Wait, it is all sensational isn't it?

You weren't exposed to gay community but personal preference.

 

This guy that tried to get me to accept money so he could suck my dick when I was a teen, talked to me earlier that night about how much he hated them "in your face flaming flamboyant queers". I always found that rather curious in retrospect.

 

Haha reminds me of:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0vkAN-D3kqg"]YouTube - The Boondock Saints- Paul's Gay Slurs

 

i dont mind seeing people share a quick kiss in public, but i dont care whats in your underwear, no making out. i dont want to see anybody getting all gropey in public, slobbering all over. thats private IMO.
and i also think that your sexuality is the same. not that you cant be open about it, but it shouldnt be the first thing people think about you. if someone is flamboyant and pushy in their sexuality it distracts from the person they are. they appear shallow, because the only thing they put out is their sexuality, you actually have to dig to find out if they are a decent person. and straight people can be pushy about their sexual preference too, just look at all the slutty clothes women wear.

 

They "wear their sexuality on their sleeve"? How is it any different than a straight man walking around and bragging all day about all of the women he's had sex with or wearing something like this:


They're not hurting you or anyone else, so stop bitching:tongue:

 

Phuck yew I'm an ant eaaaaaaaaadur.

Yeah overly gay people suck. Overly straight people suck. Overly straight closet homosexuals suck.

Fuck dat shit.

 

If I saw someone wearing that shirt I would lulz then punch them in the vagina.

 

I don't care if people behave flamboyantly, but I'm comfortable in my sexuality.

 

I had the same thing happen to me over the summer.
That's about the only thing that would make me uncomfortable.
Who cares if people advertise their sexuality. That shit shouldn't bother you.

 

Yeah-- my only counterpoint to this eloquent bit of wisdom is that the expression of that annoyance says more about the person who has the problem with the behavior. The key is to figure out how to not empower words and personal mannerisms to push our buttons so neither flamboyant mannerism nor the expressed intolerance of them are bothersome.

 

I've never done this, but have heard; a strait man can find a nice women at a gay bar. The reason that they go to the bar with friends (the female) knowing that they are not gonna to get hit on by every pervert there. They just want to have a good time.

I have not tried this.

 

I saw my first drag show at the gay bar last weekend. It was wild and I understand how it can be too much for people. They are REALLY in your face there and the main person who does the emceeing picked people out of the audience could have really embarrassed me, I hate being picked out of crowded regardless of where I am, no attention please.. I just get anxious. I was especially nervous though because I was just out of my element. I'm not even used to people talking about stuff they joked about, haha. I'm so naive.