I'm 19 and even though I'm not a virgin, I still feel inexperienced. I was only with one guy who ended up just using me. He did not care at all to make me feel good whenever we had sex. Now I'm talking to a new guy. He is much older than me, 28. He wants to hook up but I'm scared that it's going to be the same thing with the other guy I was with. I do not care that I'm not in a relationship with this new guy. The only thing I want is to get my needs met too. So guys, when you have sex with a girl that your just hooking up with, are you selfish about it, or do you make sure she gets her needs met too? And girls, how do you get your needs met with a guy that your just hooking up with? And what I mean by getting my needs met is being pleasured.
That's the only thing he should be worried about. If a guy cares about you, he should be focused on giving you pleasure-and vice versa. I don't worry about whether I'm going to 'get mine'-the most important thing is whether she's happy.
