She fainted or something earlier and is in ICU on life support, they have done scan's for bleeding and tumour's which came back clear, she's only like 70 i seriously dont know what to do. My grandad is in a state - i think he has blocked alot of it out. I hope she get's better but deep down i think she wont.
Wiggy *hugs* I hope you are ok, i know what it's like to have someone you love so ill I send you lots of good vibrations. Just be calmed ok? love, zep xxx
i really hope she gets well! my grandmother, who i am very close to is dying slowly but surely. im trying to be prepared for the day but i dont think i will be. i dont think ill ever be the same afterward.
Sorry to hear that wiggy. doesn't sound like there's much you can do except hope and try to be there for your grandad. sounds like he's in shock.
I went to see her yesterday she is ICU on ventelator (sp) still ill, they have no idea whats wrong with her - they think its a infection but dont know where. She's still in a coma - i took my grandad yesterday and she moved a bit and tried to open her eye's. The nurses said she can hear us and proberly knows we are there because her BP goes up when we speak to her, i hate the thought of her being there alone with nurses she doesn't know, We have quite a big family so we are all going there on different times - apart from night time. The nurses are great - really helpful its just a horrible time for everyone no one is eating e.g grandad, dad, uncle, auntie, mum, sister's, me i'm gonna cook a sunday dinner for everyone today and hopefully eat it. I just want this all to end and everything to be better again. xxx
Yer a good lass wiggy, your family are blessed to have ya Sorry to hear about this horrible time for ya hun....never easy
Hang in there,don't be afraid to cry if you're scared and hold on to all the support you can,I send my positive thoughts as well
