I think I am a lesbian

but I am unsure. I have messed around wtih girls before and liked it but always liked guys way better. Now I mostly am just interested in girls and after getting dropped off last night by a very attractive guy I watched Ellen at 3 in the morning and was oddly attracted to her. what do I do.

 

oh shit....

 

maybe you're bi?
who knows, labels are overrated

try going on a date with a chick, see how you feel about women afterwards

 

well I think I am in love with my old best friend who is a lesbian. We stopped being friends because she had feelings for me and to me it did feel like a date when we went out. Now looking back it scared me because I liked it. I want to let my friend know how I feel but we haven't spoken in months, she does not feel secure around my group of friends, but we were best friends in 6th-9th grade and she looked me up two yesrs ago and we had drinks a few times and then watched a drag show and that was the last time we went out. She smokes though and I can't be with a smoker because I am so weak I will be a smoker. I just don't know. Could it be a phase?

Also, last month I threw-up on a guy while having sex because I found it to be so unappealing and when i did it with my old boss, who I used to find sexy as hell I disliked having sex with him. I haven't even liked kissing guys lately, which I usualy love. But I find myself seeing girls, particularly this really hot one at work and wanting to kiss her. God this is different.

 

Look her up, tell her how you feel... what's the worst that could happen if you're honest with her and just see how things go? Get some pussy girl

 

But when men are logical I find it sexy and what woman is actually logical?-none I know. But if you do know her introduce her to me

 

shut up!!!


She's on my myspace should I message her???????? What the hell do I say? What if it turns out I don't like it and I hurt her?

 

just ask her out for drinks, say you've been thinking about her. That's why I said be honest, let her know you aren't really sure what's going on with you but you aren't feeling attracted to guys anymore, and you remembered how cool she was to go out with. But make sure she knows you aren't sure, so she knows this is new territory, treacherous territory for her...

 

hah!

theres really nothing holding you back, except your fears. if this is what you're feeling, take a shot at it. she was your friend before, don't think it would hurt none just to talk about it and see if its something you want to continue on with.

 

Can I write it and pm it to you before I send it to make sure the tone comes across exactly as you described? Do you mind?

 

of course you can!

 

I think you are right...but then I just lost my job too. So you think she'll assume and equate my contact to needing somone as oppossed to wanting to test out my feelings?

 

thank you

 

I'm still trying to figure out how Ellen turned you on!

 

thats where being totally honest comes in. you'll have to tell her that you don't know what you will feel - your feelings might change to not having feelings for woman. never hurts to test out curiosity, but just be honest with her if you do go through with it.

and Tyra had a show about this this afternoon

 

Ahahah... I was totally thinking about the Tyra show too, I just didn't wanna say it

 

her voice and I just had kinky thoughts about Ellen...god this should been in true confessions

 

ooooh kinky thoughts

there's also the gay forum if you want some different persepectives on it

 

really? That means it will be on talknet tonight at 11...I will have to watch it. were the girls hot? how would I like get a date with a girl...ith a boy it's so easy you just wink at them and it's like your whistle to get them to ask you out. I already wink at women too, more than men even and it doesn't mean anything, even if I do it in a really flirty way the most that happens is they blush.

 

i usually change it - just because its way too much estrogen for me at one time...but with the subject for the show - kinda had to watch haha