I swear to all that is holy

that if one more person tells me I have an eating disorder I am going to beat so much ass.... everyone will now say something to see if I beat ass, but rest assured, I will be sending you hate waves and you will feel them someday...

 

I don't think you look obese.....

shit, people gotta stop being such assholes.

Gotta learn some tact.

 

why would people say that? You look fine and healthy to me (from what I can see in your albums).. a few extra lbs wouldn't kill ya, but if you eat a healthy diet and all that jazz, I don't see the problem. Fuck 'em all... people give me shit cuz I'm fat, but I say fuck it and eat another vegan cupcake. Damn...

 

yeah people like saying that to skinny people. it's not ok to call someone fat but saying someone has an eating disorder is ok. apparently.

you do look very thin. you don't have much fat on you, i wouldn't say you look anorexic though. you could do with some more muscle tone, it's good to build some muscles when you're young, puts you in good stead for middle/old age. im quite slender myself and i do yoga to tone up.

 

Practicing cannibalism on those who make those comments to you might be the ideal solution.

 

To be honest you look as if you could put on a few pounds and with the right workout regiment you could look quite muscular and sinewy

Hotwater

 

If you don't look anorexic, some people will call you fat. It's a no-win situation.

 

welll, as a fatty, people tell me in a millions gentle, caring, "subtle" ways what i should eat or shouldn't eat and all that. so it's still annoying.

but there ain't nothing wrong with you, chrissy. nevermind the idiots. either their jealous or stupid or geniunely well meaning. i try not to get pissed with the well meaning and give the stupid ones the benefit of the doubt. jealous ones i don't really have.

 

they're just jealous. nothing tastes as good as feeling skinny. :biggrin:

 

they used to tell me that in high school because i have always been rather slender, and ovcourse those teenage years I was the skinniest i could be. But i just showed em up by eating my gourmet meatloafs and lasagnas while they eat dry bologna sandwiches at lunch.

 

also, eating disorder skinny people have a dead skin and hair look, a sunken look. maybe not immediately, but eventually it shows.

 

i have a tough time telling the difference between people with severe eating disorders and people who have a heroin problem.

 

you know, there's been a study on how various genetics effect how people absorb various nutrients and are coming closer to figuring out what people should eat to maintain a healthy weight, along with exercise and such. some people just plain have to exercise more regardless.

but we're not all the same and anyone being judgemental about you being so thin should just mind their business.

 

it looks the same, really, aside form the pock marks. my ex sister in law had a severe disorder. she eventually DID have more hair than brains or body. GROSS. i looked better at her wedding than she did.

 

whenever I see someone as skinny or skinnier than me I think to myself, "damn thats a skinny mofo." but then my next thought is "am I that skinny? I need to do some pushups."

 

it'll arrive all on it's own, usually. dave was super skinnny guy his whole life, too.

 

but I like being skinny. I run everywhere at work just because I can.

 

that's cool. most of the really skinny people i know have been fighting a battle to put on a couple pounds so they don't have to listen to people anymore. i've always thought, if you got it, keep it.

 

UGH or the, "baby you would look so sexy if you lost five pounds." Really? Like dropping some water weight would make me a goddess. Meh I would rather be told to eat than be reminded that I would look better if I lost a few pounds.