I slept with...

my friend.....Whom my mother had slept with....and I knew it, too....

But I liked him first! and she knew that!

Which one of us is the bad girl?

Holly

 

That's a real fucked up situation...what is your mother doing sleeping with your friends? That's just wrong...and illegal if he's underage...i didn't check your age..but whatever the age, it's sick and twisted.

 

Well now... its all fine and well to bash mommy... but what about him?

 

ABSOLUTELY. You deserve better than some dude that's makin' bacon with your mother.

Although your mom shouldn't have done that to you. That's awful.
Why the hell would she do something like that to you?

You aren't the bad girl, that's for sure!

 

HAHA, that was awesome!

Hey, HippieLngstcking... I haven't seen you around since the "Possible draft" thread with that terrible RealAmerican guy. Hehe, nice to see you again.

 

LMFAO! Yeah, I'm still lurking about, making lives miserable...
Good to see you again, also!

But, DUDE, you know I'm right...
Moms shouldn't be porking the guy she's interested in.
That's just plain f***ed up.

 

HAHA, yeah, I agree with you there. That's a bit too weird for me.

 

OKAY! The full situation is as follows....I didn't type it earlier, I was headed to class....

I met Jake in December, I think. I liked him immediately. He was crass and funny, laid back and musical. He rocked. I didn't introduce him to my mother until May, after I graduated. However, I talked about him all the time. I was always at his house, spent the night (never slept with him though), and even went to prom with him. I liked him alot. I had plans to sleep with him once I got back from my trip to Oklahoma, in which I was going to break up with my boyfriend there....

I introduced my mom and Jake and shortly after that, I left for Oklahoma...Mom knew I was going to break up with my boyfriend and that I liked Jake, but not that I was going to have sex with him when I got back...

Okay, so I get back to town about a week later and mom is acting quite cheery. Not to mention, Jake is over everyday and spending the night. However, he sleeps with me, not her. Finally, mom breaks down and tells me. I'm hurt, fucking devastated...But Jake says that it was nothing and so does mom and so about three weeks later, while we are camping, Jake and I have sex.

I didn't tell my mom. I don't want to tell her. But now I feel bad for having slept with him. And I hate feeling that I want to forget a sexual experience. Pisses me off. So now, knowing this....Am I still the bad one?

Holly

 

You know what, that rocks. Your mom obviously has to be a MILF so if you want I can help either you or her out.

 

Neither of you are bad...it's human nature, as long as it's not at the same time

 

I have no idea why YOU feel bad about it

 

Thats just plain out weirdness man

peace
chickens

 

That would be sweet to bang a hot chick and her hot mom. That would be hot. I don;t think anyone did anything wrong

 

Yeah, you didn't do anything wrong or unnatural.

 

Well your mom is obviously a slut and the apple don't fall far from the tree!

 

You know, I feel bad enough as it is without someone insulting both me AND my mother. My mother is not a slut. In fact, before Jake, she hadn't had sex in two years. And she hasn't had sex since. I guess it was just something that happens that you don't plan.

And as far as me being a slut, I am 18 fucking years old! I am allowed to experiment with my own sexuality. Just because I sleep with people I am not going out with or have slept with more than X number of people doesn't give YOU or ANYBODY else the right to call me such a derogatory name.

SO BITE ME!

Holly

 

Well, I guess the thing to do would be to talk to your mother. I don't know how close you are but if you feel bad about this whole thing and you really want to turn it around so you can enjoy the thought then I would free my conscience. I would get honest with her about it and expect her to be honest with you.

I don't think this is a case of "who is bad", I think it is a case of two adults findin' a man they are both interested in.

Your mom had sex with him knowin' you liked him? That isn't all that cool BUT whats done is done.

How do you feel about your mother? Can you forgive her? Can you trust Jake? You don't have to answer that. Maybe that is somethin' you should ask youself.

Relationships do not work without trust.

 

I know that if i was interested in a girl, who proceeded to fuck my dad, i would likely not talk to either again......sorry but that is very slutty of your mom, and pretty lame of him.

 

Like I said about the apple...................

 

I've heard of this happening twice,once was my brothers first real girlfriend who fucked him at like age 13.....her mom went on to sleepwith a bunch of her male friends, and the girl was very messed up.


the other was with this family where both the dad and son were big sluts, and by chance they fucked the same girl and found out later.