i really need some help...falling out of love?

Okay, I really need some help on this. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost one year. We have been through so increadibly much and have actually never even had a fight (which could be both good and bad). Well, about a month ago we went on summer break (we're in college) and she lives about 3 hours away from me (and seeing as my car broke down...we've only seen eachother like once). But before the break she was apparantly starting to feel like things were becoming weird between the two of us. I guess she started to lose the feelings of love that we once had and over this time that we haven't been able to be together, her feelings of lost love have only become more inhanced. So, now we are trying to figure out if she still truly loves me...but how do we figure that out? I know that she still cares for me desperately...but that feeling of love has since been lost. Anyone have any ideas? I am the first genuinly nice guy she has ever dated (she's only been with real creeps) and the last thing she wants to do is string me along. This situation is tearing both of us apart.
Thanks for the help.

 

We is the problem. Don't pressure her to make a decsion like that. If you keep trying to help in her in that kind of situation you'll only make her feel more guilty and worse. Obviously you two have been together for so long you're close and she's probably really good friends with you so that would mean she's probably feeling obligated to hurry with her decsion and not hurt you any more, but also becaue of that she may stay with you out of guilt and you don't want that.

Allow her the space she needs. I know right now you must think that the space is what caused her to change her feelings but that isn't nessisarily true. True love doesn't die with space or any amount of time away from the other. Allow her time for herself so she can come to the conclusion she needs to. This is something that she needs to figure out on her own (even if it does affect you.)