I need your help as psychologically - as scientific

Dear Hippies,

Maybe you know, can one become pregnant with intact preservative? I know it sounds silly, but I am really confused.

Everything began about a week ago: anywhereI go I meet pregnant women: In TV, in the streets, here.. They are so many! anyone is speaking about pregnance, even my friends and my parents. I think about pregnance 24 hours and even my lover put his hand on my stomach and keep it some minutes just like I was really pregnant.

I believed that all that was only my illusion and paranoia..but now I have problems with my period, what I haven't since I'm not virgin. I am so confused! I won't go out 'cause I know: there I will meet many many pregnants or people speaking about it.. I can't talk about it with anyone and so please you to help me. I am alone.

I just FEEL something but as holy optimist I keep to believe this is only my illusion.

Love,

Ursula Buendia

 

Imaculate Conception,

maybe you have the next coming of Jesus Christ in your womb.

 

mmm...what i dont understand is whether you want to get pregnant or not...well, either way if you havent had your period yet and you're more than a week late, go to the chemist get one those pregnancy test and get yourself out of that hole. ok? anyway good luck!

 

umm...

 

I don't want. I don't want it now... God, I use contraception! Tell me that it is impossible and I haven't to worry... brrrrr I am so nervous :&
Thank you, ZePpeLinA I plan to do it in this days.. but I am brrrrrrrrrr

 

Nothing is ever impossible.

 

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr thank you all!! you encourage me so muchh!!! brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

"I'm just a poor boy, nobody loves me .."

 

ok im a lil weird, shoot me.

 

um.. I can't shoot you you're too young.
but if I'm not pregnant I'll kiss you!

 

I'll take a kiss over a bullet anyday.

 

pretty pacifistic words. I will write them down
oh man.. tell me that there's nothing in me or I'll just shoot myself
brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

 

I'm what you call a hippy.

 

So... if shaba was older, or if you were pregnant, you would, in fact, shoot him...

That makes sense.

Ursula, it is Springtime. Conception traditionally happens in the dead of winter (hey, ya gotta do something to combat cabin fever, and sometimes snuggling for warmth gets taken a step too far). So pregnancy, especially in the animal kingdom, but also in humans, is most noticeable in the Spring.

Or not, who the hell knows?

 

So death by the gun is inevitable for me. Ah! Well! its been good while it lasted, I await death with open arms!

 

It may be scary doing the test, but if you know the result, then you can take some kind of step forward, whichever step you chose to take - instead of stressing at the same stage you were in a few days ago. If you have a good friend, then talk to her/him and let them support you. Maybe they could be your 'wait buddy' as you do the test.

Buy the kit now. Even if you wait a few days before testing, you'll have moved forward a little. Next read the instructions. When you are ready, organise your 'wait buddy' to come over and be with you. Go to the bathroom, do the test, and wait for the result. If you break it down in little stages, it may be easier for you to find out the result quicker, rather than stressing about it, without knowing. It could all be nothing more than spring vibes, you know.

Best of luck. Thinking of you !!!

 

Dear Jinny, Thank you very very much!
I am too nervous to do the test. I live in town where everyone knows each other and this factory is one more for me to be nervous to go to the chemist. Today I told my lover that I'm worrying. He is sure it is simple delay. He is my closest friend too but I can't show him my nervousness. Therefore, I decided to write my problem here and thank you once again, you have really encouraged me. kiss!

P.S. Welcome to here!

 

how do you know what I call a hippy?


Zoomie, calm down when he will be older I will find another reason don't to shoot him
I like your alegories anyway..


I am trying to be optimistic. I use good german cundoms, it protects 97%..
god..

 

what ever you do, DONT STRESS ABOUT IT...it'll just make it worse

 

Thank you all! and please sorry me, I was really stressed and confused and maybe simple aggressive I don't know..
Thank you! You all are the best!
Love you all!

 

Never fear, Shaba! If she won't shoot you, some wayward, hormonally imbalanced female will amble along sooner or later. Death by the gun doesn't have to be inevitable, but it sure beats cancer or TB or ...