I NEED SEX...and not just any sex I need.....

Sex that is soooo good, soooooo great I want to walk sideways for days! :wheelchair: Don't get me wrong, I have a boyfriend but the sex is HORRIBLE I mean so HORRIBLE, a carrot can do a better job! There is no fire , no passion , no connection! We've been together for 2 years and before him my sex life was so frickin awesome it could give Charlie Sheen's sex life a run for its money! I just LOVE sex is that so wrong?!?! I hate relationships cause of all the complications (jaded from previous relationships), however I come to learn all I want in a relationship is sex! I am tried of masturbating every other night, and seeking around trying to find a fuck buddy. WHEN WILL IT END?!?!?! :banghead:

p.s. I can't break up with him because I depend on him for living.

p.s.s. Plus his name is on the lease...

 

Sounds like you know what's wrong with your sex life, you need to fix your financial life. But I know everyone is going to give you crap about that, so I do sympathize, stuff like that can be tough.

 

Yeah, you know what the problem is. Get yourself into a position where you can provide for yourself and then get out of there!

 

Heres a thought,

As you say, you Loooove Sex,

Sex is currently the basis for your survival thanks in part to your Sugar Daddy lifestyle,

Deep down, relationships frustrate you,,,

Perhaps you have some negative attachments to conventional moral standards which are holding you back from finding your true calling in life? It is the oldest profession or so some say. (I'd bet the first one was really nut and berry gatherer but thats another topic unto itself)

Just sayin', many a Masters Degree has been paid for or founded in such a manner and you sure look equipped for the job. (Understand that I mean that in the best of ways, not saying you look whoreish or anything, just that I'd bet you could have as steady a clientelle as you want)

 

Only grown ups get to have sex whenever they want.

 

23? That switch is probably going to go on soon and you'll go baby crazy anyway, latch on to some safe, boring dependable guy; maybe this current one and in 5 years end up three times as frustrated.

You have a lot to look forward too

 

i dont think sex is a reason to get upset about anything just tell him how you want him to do it or move him until he gets the motion you are looking for!

 

Get independent.

 

If you want to break up with him but you aren't because he's responsible for your financial stability, you're a twat. It's unfair to him that you're leading him on because you can't be a responsible adult and support yourself.

 

agreed:2thumbsup:

 

well, i love sex too BUT, IT IS NOT THE END ALL AND BE ALL OF MY LIFE!

back in 1975 when i turned 18 years old, my best male friend took me out bar hopping every night for about 4 months, during that 4 month period, i fucked with a different person every night; that would be about 120 different people i fucked with during that time frame.
at the end of 4 month period i told earl (my best male friend) that he needed to find another clubbing budy. i was just burnout from fucking everything that moved.
not once, from any of those people i fucked, did i ever get any enjoyment from it... the body contact and the orgasms felt great BUT, the 'fire and passion' was missing.
i only ever exprerenc 'fire and passion' twice by the time i was 18 years old. one of those people was earl the other was vicki (my best female friend.)
the reason for the 'fire and passion' in both of those relationships was, because, we had builted: emontional, psychological, and spiritual connections before we had sex.

who in the hell, are you trying to convence that sex is the problem between you and your boyfriend?
the sex is just superficial stuff in the relationship between you two.
SEX IS NOT THE UNDERLINING PROBLEM IN THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN YOU TWO!


i can see part of what is the underlining problem(s) between you two.
the stuff going between you two is too complex to be dealt in depht here on the internet.
i strongly suggest you seek the services of a psychotherapist who has a back in couples and family systems therapy.

 

I still think you need to turn your honeypot into a moneypot, you're 1/2 way there as it is. Aint nothin' wrong with it short of what you may think of the trade.

 

So I mean, I don't want to point out the obvious, but you're exchanging bad sex for money.....

Bad sex is merely an occupational hazard.

 

there's no such thing as a fussy hooker.

 

i feel sorry for him. do the guy a favour and leave him.

 

I mean really, it only sounds like you would be expanding your clientelle from how you describe your current relationship,,, :2thumbsup:

Oh, and loosing the initial client in the process.

And it's not like you cant be picky, you get to say no if you want.

 

Well She say's the primary reason for her keeping a relationship with this Guy is financial dependancy,,,

:ifitwalkslikeaduck: :cheers2:

 

ok, got you now. ya, good point. even so i hope the present unsuspecting client smells the coffee soon. :2thumbsup:

 

You're on the internet slagging off your boyfriend's sexual performance but you wont leave because you're depending on him for money? You sound like a great person

Hopefully just a troll.

 

Well, I'm the South Pole to your North pole then.

Sex is the key to everything. The aim should be to increase fire and passion, with whoever it is. Increase you chi through experience and ability

Spiritual Connection? What a load of shit. Emotional connection, you mean co-dependancy and Psychological - You mean security

That kind of talk is the same as saying if you like Adrenalin its best to ride the merry-go-round rather than the roller coaster.

The best sex comes from ability, not security. And everyone ends up bored with everything else