see im sorta shy. hell im plain shy. i have a problem with asking girls out and "making the move". i am really confused about myself. my friend are always talking bout the things they do with girls and the farthest they've gone. and i just haveta sit there and say i just kissed. not even made out. i dont know wts rong with me. i always think about, wut if i had the chance to make out with a hot chick and id plan it all out in my head. i thought i was a good plan. then one day it really did happen. i backed off. i was so scared i backed off. i dont know wut got over me. can anyone help me please!
you shouldn't have to feel like its something that needs to happen asap just because your friends have nothing better to discuss. i mean, even if you had two cents to put into the conversation,why would you really want to? its is all about how YOU feel about it. some people are free with their lovin' and thats ok, but if you aren't ready don't push yourself. you may end up making a decision that you will regret in 5 minutes. its sounds cliche but when you are ready you will know. until then, you don't have to be ready. and just so you know, a lot of girls really admire when a guy says no. it can show a girl you care about her for reason beyond the fact that she has a vagina. ; )
it's not that easy to explain how to overcome a fear like that you just kinda have to go for it with all the confidence in the world.
honestly, when i asked my bf out it was in part because a) i was fed up with being so damn shy when i wanted him so damn badly and b) my friends literally shoved me into doing it. sometimes you just have to suck it up and do it, and sometimes someone helps set up that situation to make it easier to suck it up and just frickin ask someone out
I have a beautiful girlfriend that is one of the coolest people in the world to be around. Something that is a little different between us is our religious views. We have been together for over a year, and to start out we had a very good and strong sexual relationship! She was a ton of fun, but then she just started to talk about how it was against the bible and everything and she didnt wna do it anymore, which i just kept blowing it off and she would do it anyway but less and less. Now its to the point where i am lucky to get laid once a week and when it does happen she would rather me wake her up in the middle of the night and do it! Drives me crazy! I am no man whore but when i get a girl i really love i want to share this with them, and often! Anyone have any ideas on what i should do?
It's ok. Maybe cause you never made out before, you freaked. It's ok for you to have freaked out. It's not something that you plan out. Those stories of your friends...who honestly cares of their stories...your time would come and it did. That was one time...if your still with this girl....let her guide you and dont do whatever oyu're not comfortable doing. Don't worry about it...and dont plan it....it's funner that way. Peace!
