So i know this chick, she is my dream girl, i knew her for a while, almost 5 years or even more, we havnt realy chilled but we talk online, and on the phone about alot, She is so cool and she is so beutifull, i just lossed someone i realy loved about 4 months ago, she lossed somsone she loved about 6 months ago but she has a bf. yesterday she picked me up and we went christmass shopping for her girls at her work so she gets a discount. I enjoyed it so much, she is the coolest chick i ever met, we can talk about anything todether, and we are fed up at what the world is turning into with all these sluts and players, how do i let her know i realy like her? my only wish is not to make good money in life, not to do what noone has done before, but my wish is for the perfect girl just like her. please help me out, and please pray for me, i have been in so much pain before because of other girls, and i dont know if i can go again with so much pain. i think she is very true, and all i wana know is how we can be together. thanks
Heyheyhey, man! You need to chillll it! Before you read further, take ten deeep breaths!... Don't tell her you like her, make things happen... You've got to spark her attraction for you, not oposite. That seems to be big enough. Just have fun and let things be natural and when the situation is right, kiss her! Voillá! It's not as hard as you think. Don't make your own obstacles! PS: Don't act stilted, needy or wimpy. From your post it seems like you may do that. And last of all: Good luck!
So, not to be cynical or pessimistic or anything, but i dont know if telling her all that is a good idea. Especially if she has a BF. obviously shes with him for some reason or another. Not to say she doesnt like you, or you have no chance, but like a previous poster said, chill it out a bit. I was like that when i was younger... i lost a lot of possibilites with really cool girls because i think i came on too strong. Girls like romance, but when its all needy and "oh i love you so much let me wait on you hand and foot", they will get scared off. Be who you are, do your own thing, and if she wants it like you do, it will happen. If not, maybe it wasnt meant to be. I'm not saying be a dick or treat her like she doesnt matter, but dont act like shes your girlfriend yet, especially if she has a bf. Girls like to know they are worth your patience. just my $0.02
