This problem that I have has been making me ill for 3 weeks now. It needs to stop because I am not a hateful person. In my life I am always surrounded in this pure energy ring of loving friends and family. I don't hate anyone i know. Somehow this new person came along, she happens to be dating my husbands friend. Ever since I met her, I kept getting a bad impression everytime after that. For example, she's very flirty in the way that she speaks and carries herself around my husband. The worst is that she has this stareing problem. She will sit there and stare at my husband, even when he's not even talking at all. It makes me feel very uncomfortable and ill towards her. I don't really want to be friends with her because everytime I've seen her she does the same things. It's making me ill and the only reason we hang out is because now she's in this ring of friends that I happen to be in already! I feel that for someone I have just met, she would of at least had more respect. I don't even know her that well and she's too trusty trusy. The problem is that I don't trust her or like her. It's hard to like her. I trust my husband. I just feel very uncomfortable with the way that she is around him! I need a positive change. Thanks for Reading
i dunno what to say, really. she may not really mean anything by it. it's hard to tell from a post at a forum. sometimes we just have to learn to deal with people we're not to fond of. i've got in-laws that make my skin crawl. unless she actually makes some kind of move, you just have to get used to her, i guess. if she does try something, you can beat her ass.
I've actually thought about it, and that's the problem, she crawls under my skin, but I can't do anything about it because she hasn't loudly been disrespectful, and she hasn't been touchy touchy or anything like that. I spoke to my husband about it and he thinks it's funny because he has'nt noticed and even if she was flirting he wouldn't let her get touchy touchy. I think it's just because he's a guy. Girls know girls and i feel that i'm not just feeling like this for no reason. I've got intuition and as much as i'd like to follow it, i truely am not sure what her motives really are. I guess I just need to ignore her vibe and deal with it. Thanks for the advice tho
