the guy that is repairing the floors in my parents house, is extremely hot, so how do i approach the father of the girl to tell him to tell her that i am interested in her? what i thought i was gonna do was: 1) give her dad my e-mail address, and tell her to e-mail me, or to add me to msn messenger if she has msn? so that we can startto talk and get to know each other well enough to do a meeting.
because i, am shy. and the girl has only come to my house once, to pick up her dad, and i didn't get the chance to see her, but by what my parents said i should of went to the door, when she was there, my parents said she is a real kockout, the next time i talk to her father i'll ask him to give me or show me a picure of her. and i'll give him a picture to show her
Shit man, dont even start whining about being shy - you should try living with Social Anxiety and see how "shy" you are. I would never have the balls to do what you are planning to do, so what else do I say? Go for it and dont fucking give up!
you are fucking right, i should fucking put away the shyness, and do the "if i want something, i should go for it" and i will when her dad comes over i think friday or monday, then i'll give him a pic of me to show his daughter, and tell him to get a pic for me to see.
Absolutely do not talk to her dad about dating her! He's either going think your'e a creep, or she's gonna think you're a loser (no offense, but most girls are more attracted to men with confidence. well, enough confidence to ask us out). Talk to her about it. Next time she comes by, just ask her out for coffee - something simple, no strings attached, not expensive, good for talking. Don't use email either. or your picture. Ask her for her number. Asking father + using email = 99.8% chance of her turning you down.
so youre gonna go up to a guy and say, i hear your daughters hot so show me a photo. i dont care what type of person she is but i hear shes hot so now im interested. please give her this photo because if you have any sense youre going to give me the biggest black eye ever and id like her to see what i look like now. if youre actually being serious this is the most retarded thing..
i like your advice, i'll do that, i'l ask her out for coffee or something, the next time she comes over, then if everything works out i'll ask her for her number, then move on from that.
My Advice would be to NOT ASK HER DAD! Like atropine said, if you do this your just asking for him to hit you in the face. What, did you think that he's just going to hook his daughter up with anyone and still be ok with it, i dont think so.
HAHAHAHAH!!!! dude, are you joking? where did you come from, straight off the set of the bachelor or joe millionaire or something? you've never seen her, or talked to her, your PARENTS told you she's "a real knockout" so you're going to give her a picture of you via her dad.... and get one of her? what the hell... this is the weirdest thing i've heard in a long time from a 19 year old guy. if my mom told me, "the guy who's repairing our floors has a real knockout son, honey.", i'd say, "that's nice... maybe next time i see him i'll talk to him and see what he's like." the end. i would NOT say, "really? what's he like? aw, who cares anyways! maybe i'll get a pic of him and send him a pic of me, and then we can chat on the computer! yay!" waitaminute.... the whole pic thing.... i get a feeling that you're very used to relationships via the www......... yes?