My girlfriend likes me to tell her what I get up to, and the other night I had some acid, so I told her. Straight away she goes off at me, saying "I can't believe you did that, it's so bad, it's an ILLEGAL drug, it's too dangerous etc." Then she told me not to do it again. I had done it before but not told her because I knew this would happen. So I just said to her straight up that I probably will do it again. It kind of pushes my buttons when people do that sort of shit... I told her that I have no reason to listen to a person's opinion on drugs when they have absolutely no knowledge or experience in the area, that I make my decisions as responsibly as possible based on research and experience, and that if she wants to convince me to change my mind on the matter she is going to need to educate herself about it. She refused to even look up some articles on the internet because she "didn't want to bring drugs into her life." Where's the logic? I mean, sure, if someone is like "I don't want to try acid because I know some people who are into it, I've done some research, and I think the negatives outweigh the positives," then great, at least there's a bit of reasoning behind their opinion. But opinions based on hearsay and fear of the unknown? Gimme a break -_-. Have many of you had any problems with stubborn people's stances on drugs?
All the time. One of my best friends to this day thinks acid is like heroin. Is he a bad person/friend? No, he just isn't into the drug scene, has heard some false information back in the day and stays away from it. I've told him my side of it, and what I think and he respects that its my choice and that I do it. I think she should do the same. Most people just aren't interested enough to actually go and look up information about a drug online, or elsewhere. They'd rather listen to the uneducated babble in stupidity about how acid makes your brain bleed etc... It used to bother me VERY much.I'm over it now.
If I were you she wouldnt be my girlfriend. But I'm not. It is their problem, unfortunately they make it ours.
yup--i know A LOT of people that think that the acid will "fuck me up" just because of propoganda...i heard all the nasty lsd stuff to....until i tried it...and i found it was the opposite. lsd "un-fucked me up"...lol..it freed me! most friends just don't understand that so i keep it on the down-low to avoid an argument. she sounds pretty close minded--you may want to find someone who is an explorer just like you. my husband and i trip together all the time--there's nothing more beautiful then tripping with someone you love.
time for a new girlfriend. seems as though your present one doesn't approve of your recent affair with lovely lucy.
realistically, i think she wants to be on the same page as you, but she is scared to try sid or, by the sounds of it, any substance. therefore she is upset, because you are experiencing something without her... wanting to be on the same page but not ready to explore, typical human behavior if you ask me. - Tos
I agree with Tos. She is afraid of it therefore she takes her aggression stemming from her irrational fear of the drug out on you and tries to make you out to be the bad person.
