but she's a girl and i'm engaged to a guy. and she's also in a serious relationship. but it's not like i don't love my fiance. I'm madly in love with him...i just want them both. I keep having these dreams where I'm in a 3some with her and my fiance. I actually have those sort of dreams more than regular me and my fiance sex dreams for a while. And even though I think her boyfriend is really nice and great for her, sometimes I find myself kind of jealous. I know there's nothing really that can be done without messing up at least one relationship. I guess I just want to know if anyone else ever had this sort of feeling, so i know i'm not completely crazy, and maybe any words of advice?
If your having dreams of being with someone else. You might have a problem. You should tell him how you feel. Be up front with it all. If you plan to spend the rest of your life with you fiancé. Just so he knows what he’s getting into. Just my opinion.
i have told my fiance about it, and he's pretty open minded and everything...and he's always in the dreams, i've never had one of those dreams without him in it.
Then their you go it’s all in the open. Go with what you and him feel is right for the both of you. Just remember no jealousy it will take all the fun out of it. You sound like a cool girl. Happiness to you.
I had a sexual experience with a girl... told my best friend since the 7th grade when i was about 22. She and i were so close i slept in her bed more than my own in jr high/highschool. But after i told her about my first sexual experience.. the next time we were in her bed we were rubbing on eachother and kissing Im glad i told her cus we had great sex and great friendship. It was always fun for us and never serious. I loved that about it. I miss it!
PixieDust Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: North Carolina Age: 25 Posts: 4 I have the hots for my best friend... So what! You are bisexual. If your boyfriend will not understand, don't tell him. Be discreet. If your best friend wants to play around and you want to, go for it. A lot of people are bisexual, but do not advertise it. Nor do they let their boyfriends or girlfriends, wives, husbands, and mothers know.
