I HATE this!

I'm very open about my sexuality, its no secret at school, but I HATE it when guys come up to me and they're like "Who would you do in this class, who would you do in that class?" Ugh, its just so bloody irritating! Does anybody else get that?

 

Yes...some people think that gays are out to have sex with whatever they can get their hands on...like we lack taste and self controll !!!

 

I know! Its ridiculous, really. And what they don't understand is I'm the only girl lovin' girl in our school (its a VERY small school) and so I don't wanna have sex with somebody who doesn't wanna have sex with me! But try to get that through their heads... oy!

 

At least your not getting the Can I Watch crap !! hahaha

 

I Am!!!

 

A gay friend of mine who's graduated high school already (and has been out there) reports such questions. I don't know; I'm not out. If I were to announce it, I don't really think that those questions would be the worst of what I might, then, have to face.

At any rate, such inquiries are pretty benign. Homosexuals aren't too visible. (and by this I mean actual homosexuals - not broadcasted idiocy). And when one is located, it's pretty damn natural of humans to find out more. So, yeah, it can get tiresome I imagine.

 

Yeah, its not like they're harming me, its just annoying.

 

I don't think people are comfortable enough with me being gay to start asking me those questions, but once they do (and I'm sure it will happen), I... don't know what I'll do. Probably just be annoyed. But yeah I can totally see how that would be very irritating.

 

depending on who is asking .. give a sardonic smile and say "YOU" and then laugh.

 

who the fuck cares, come on. dont be so uptight, its showing that they seem to be more comfortable about your sexuality than you are. i mean, yeah, i get asked that many time too, but you just gotta laugh and not take things so seriously. ive gotten that question asked in front of crowds of 15 to 20 people, and when that question is asked they sometimes even all stop and wait to see who i say. usually i dont actually say who i would really want to do, i just pick out the person who is able to joke around about it too. and i laugh, and everyone else laughs, and its all good.

 

If you don't feel comfortable with it, you shouldn't have to give any sort of answer. One way to handle it is to look at them with a certain knowing smile and ask, "Now why would *you* want to know about that?"

 

I know exactly why, so they can masterbate over the possibility of that happening which makes me feel uneasy

 

Now that's downright creepy. I don't blame you for being uneasy.

 

Guys you are just young too understand your real side and what you really like.... give it some time. and proudly say who y ouare at age 20-22

 

Thats silly, what you really like. You are not the same person at twenty two that you are seventeen. At seventeen I know what I like, at 22 I will like something different, just as at thirty I will have other likes. Thats the beauty of growth!

 

how is it that different to a group of girls discussing who they like or boys pointing out which girl they like.

I don't think them asking is that hramful, but you answering maybe if yopu said you liked someone who was homophobic for instance it may cause trouble
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i get that alot with guys because i'm bisexual, or they beg me for a 3some.

 

They're probably just playing with you.