I'm finally seeing my boyfriend again this month for an early Valentine's day date. I'm staying at his house next weekend and we've been wanting each other like fucking crazy. However, I'm expecting my period any day now and he doesn't want to fuck on my period (we have before, it was icky). But I'm just really hoping I get it like, right now so it can be at least very light or finished by the weekend, or get it next sunday or monday. It's just killing me because we usually don't get much privacy because he lives at home and we usually have no time so we just kiss until he's hard and we fuck, not much foreplay. But now we've got a good place to have privacy and time and he's talking about all the foreplay and things he wants to do to me (kiss and lick my body everywhere, eat me out and make me soaking and aching for him) and then he said something that got me a bit miffed. He said if I do get it right before I go, he wants me to suck his dick "at least". Now, if we spent every weekend together I wouldn't mind because we'd just have sex the week after. BUT I see him once every 1 1/2 to 2 months and I don't really think it's fair he should expect that because sucking his dick is going to get me excited as all hell and then I go home wet, bloody, and excited with no sex for almost 2 months (while he sleeps happily satisfied) until we even get another chance. And even then, if the schedules with our family fuck it up, the only time I can manage to go there might be when I'm due for my period again. I know for a fact I have a much higher sex drive than him, and he usually isn't this eager to fuck (or if he is, he doesn't always show it) and it's going to bother me more than him if I go this long without sex. I'm going to kill myself if I can't have a normal sex life sometime soon. Or get a fuck buddy, I don't know.
Are you on birth control pills? Seems to me I've heard something about taking them for a few extra days to put off your period. They'd have to be the full strength pills from an extra pack you might have on hand.
Maybe it's time to try some rear entry?! J/k I say why not just do it on your period, a little more gross than usually but yall wont die and you'll get some sexing. Reminds me of a funny meme
This is what I would reccomend. A lot of guys are afraid, but once you do it once or twice it's not that big of a deal. "If you can walk through mud you can fuck through blood." Shower sex is a good way to get your/his feet wet.
I kinda like seeing myself in the mirror after "fucking thru blood". I look and feel like a gladiator.
I agree. Though actually, even though my boyfriend is always trying to have sex with me on my period, I really don't enjoy it. Would he be willing to at least touch you? I enjoy being touched on my period and so my boyfriend does that and then I touch him and we are both satisfied.
It's valentines day he should be worshiping you. Tell him you'll suck his dick on his birthday or something.
I'm going to drive him insane until he has to fuck me no matter what :2thumbsup: I was thinking about that, but we are going to try that at some point anyway, better not when I'm bloody. I don't want any extra ick factors for me. I think he should be too! I wouldn't mind sucking his dick if I knew sex was coming later. I suggested this but I'm not sure how we'll manage to have no one notice that we both slipped away into the shower together. Plus..I'm very loud, so that doesn't help.
One thing you could try is finding a bf that you Don't have to beg for a fuck. From observation I've seen that couples with differing sex drives find it hard to remain happy.