i got busted and put on probation, now i have like 1-2mnths left.(depending when i finish drug counseling) I dont know what i should do after i get off, i certanly want to smoke again. but my mom knows the smell of pot, and what you look like when high, so i cant be doing it very often. (or maybe when shes at work). but my ? is what should i do, my mom definatley knows when im smoking, and if i get caught again it probably juvie or something harsh. peace
eyedrops, and open windows... losing the hotbox too get rid off smell may be needed. and gum. if only something could hold your eyes open more...
best thing start saving money up now, get loads and buy a volcano vapuriser or something. smoke/vapur it in your room and stay there- sorted
I would say the wait till you're out of your house. Just tough it out. I do see that you are 15. That would be a long time. but it looks like a lot is at stake here. Don't complicate your life for an indulgence. seriously. Certainly don't do it just after you get off probation. Do things to build up your mother's trust & faith in you. Work on getting better grades. Help around the house. (help around the house is the easier one to pull off...) At some point she will no longer see you as a fuck up, at which point, who knows - you might even be able to have an honest talk with her & say - Mom, you can see i have my shit together - I really like to do this one thing, onece in a while, and I want to know that I don't have to hide it from you... if you put it in those terms, she might just see it your way. Who knows. At least, if you've proven that you are really together and good to have around, even if you get caught again, she's less likely to get you in real trouble. The final thing you might say is "you don't know my mom" - well if you've got one of those moms, you'd better just stop till you get to college. Its not worth it.
exactly. Don't even think for a minute that shes not going to drug test the shit out of you after you get off probation and search your room all the time. And you know what, if that starts happening, the best thing to do is stop smoking and wait till you turn 18 and get out of there. It may suck, but not smoking for your last few years of highschool will allow you to spend a long happy life with mary jane afterwards. You dont want to get shipped off to wilderness camp and boarding school...
he's right too. If she sees that your doing fine and that you really know what your doing, and you sit down and talk to her about it, then maybe she will let you smoke every now and then
Stop smoking at home for a while. smoke with outside your firends instead just untill your mom is conviced that you really decided to quit then gradually start toking up at home again being more careful. just my advice.
thanks, but their is absolutley no chance im going to smoke at all unless i know that my mom will be gone for atlest 2-3hrs. so i think im just going to keep my toking on a weekend only base, if i decide to smoke again
maybe some of the that formal book learning education is overrated. But education and learning of life skills is priceless
Coming from a 15 year old on a marijuana message board. You obviously know what the real world is about.
I was obviously being sarcastic. And though I am young I sit down and have long talks with my dads friends and they are always saying, "And you're how old?" But it doesn't matter, there will always be people that believe the sterotype, a 15 year old being ignorant about everything and everything. It's ok, we all make mistakes.