I cheated, my confession

My husband, his African American friend Anthony and myself went on a camping trip last summer. We slept in a small tent in sleeping bags with me in the middle. The last night while my husband was snoring, Anthony carressed me. I moved my hand down to his privates and then my head and orally finished him while my husband kept right on snoring. I have never been so turnied on in my life and often think about that night during sex. We went to sleep and never spoke of the incident again. I had to tell someone.
Katie

 

sounds good to me babe keep it up

 

are you her husband....

 

Hm.. I'd be shatterd if I were your husband and I found out about it.. damn.. and what does that friends etnic background have anything to do with it?

I mean.. that you fantasize about stuff like that.. ok.. but acting on it? That's pretty disrespectfull..

 

have to agree with velvet on all accounts...geez cheating is bad enough but with him right there sleeping next to you?! ouch.

 

Wow girl, you've sure got some balls on you!

 

You are a cold hearted bitch and a cheating whore. I hope you get what is coming to you, which by the way should not be pleasant.

-Litos

 

haha exactly...
I doubt its the truth cause how in the hell could her husband sleep through her blowing some other guy..
I think thats just plain dirty though, right in front of him while he is sleeping..

 

Wow, y'all are throwing some heavy stones. Sure it was scandalous, that's what made it so appealing for her. Perhaps you should see a counselor, priest, minister, mentor, etc. to see what you should do. You might have to tell your husband what happened to get the weight off. He could divorce you, or ask you to do it again.

 

its not scadalous, its dirty.. Sorry, you just dont blow your husbands friend while your husband is sleeping right next to you...

 

I guess sometimes shit happens

 

What do you expect? She's a cheating whore and that kind of action is totally unacceptable. I don't care what made it appealing to her its flat out WRONG and disrespectful to her husband. You are just as bad for seemingly trying to defends someone who would do such an act.

-Litos

 

Dude, "she's a cheating whore"? Where the fuck do you get off saying slanderous shit about other people? I wasn't defending her, she's not even defending herself, she came here to relive some guilt. Perhaps she has some problems in her relationship or with herself that she compelled her to do this. So go the fuck back to Salem, Cocker, and let other people deal with their own issues.

 

sounds like Phoenix has been cheated on...

i can't relate, I generally wanted to get rid of girls, or to have them cheat,but they wouldn't..

anyway, she wasn't paid, so she's not a whore.

She might not be very trustworthy though

 

Paid or not, her actions were whorelike. Cheating is wrong. Cheating while married is worse. And sucking a guy off while your husband is sleeping right next to you is so low that you should pay his lawyer for any of his divorce fees. He doesn't deserve that.

I know some couples do not remain faithful to each other, and even watch each other fool around with other people. But I take it you feeling guilty about doing this means you have not discussed this with your husband before, or if you did he fervantly denied you openly cheating on him. So the only way I see it is that he deserves someone better.

 

I am sorry, I was raised not to judge or to utterly demean people. Of course it was wrong, that's why she posted here.

 

What kind of guy is the friend though, we keep nailing her, and honestly she did it spur of the moment, he may have been planning it.
but regardless
To err is human...

 

That's fucking harsh.
You should tell your husband and consider yourself lucky if he decides to keep your sluty ass.

 

Seriously, man.
Like why are you even with him? If there's one kind of person I hate, it's cheaters. I've been going through hell with my boyfriend because every single girl he's ever gone out with has turned out to be a whore and cheated on him. Now, because of people like you, I have to deal with all his insecurity issues and it sucks. People like you suck. Think of how your husband would feel if he knew. Think of how you would feel. Why the hell are you even with him? You obviously couldn't love him that much if you'd do something like that, and on top of that, still fantasize about it.
ew.

 

Phoenix, I can tell by the way that you write that you are not very mature. Anyone that is so dogmatic on any issue has not seen much of the world nor the people that inhabit it. You all need to take your own personal issues with cheaters to a shrink. She is not a "bad" person for what she did. What she did was wrong, yes, but even here we don't know the full extent of her situation. How can you all be so judgemental? You make me sick with your evil hate and lack of compassion.
ew.