I've been in a relationship for 2 1/2 years. me and my boyfriend used to have sex all the time, but lately I can't have sex. I think about it all the time, and I'm always thinking "yeah, I'd really like to have sex right now", but when it gets down to it, I just can't do it. am I going crazy? am I a total prude? has anyone else had this happen to them?
What do you mean you can't do it? He can't slide inside you, you stop before penetration, you stop before pants come down... where/when does it not end up with sex for you?
If its that you freeze when it comes down to the actual act ...then yes...I know what you are talking about
Just drink vodka next time. It may not be a friend to your liver, but it's definitely a friend in bed as long as you don't drink too much, just enough..... you know. Aw fuck it, I really am a bad influence, they were right .
Honestly, it almost sounds like, in your mind, you've somehow associated sex with something very unpleasant. Or the sex, itself, is so routine that doing it now is like taking out the trash.
have you recently miscarried, given birth, or been through any kind of trauma? If yes then this is to be expected for a short while If no then just try relaxing, reading about sex and gaining a new approach maybe...perhaps its a problem with your relationship. f not its just your mind and you can easily fix it Myeah
