Hi everyone. Just come out of a 4 year relationship. I felt weird to start with, being single again that it. But now i find it quite exciting. I want to have fun and experiment on a sexual level. Does this make me a slag? i hope not. lol How do you think i should approach the single lifestyle, without being a slag or anyone getting hurt?
Hey, I just came out of a 19 month relationship about a month ago. It was hard at first, we managed to stay friends, but that didn't work out so good so I blocked her on msn and facebook, and I can now safely say that I've come to the point where I've stopped thinking about her all together, and now looking for another partner. I did like the aspect of having a "fuck buddy", and it certainly doesn't make you a slag! I'm still looking for a "fuck buddy" but if a certain special someone comes along bringing a relationship, then I'll certainly say yes to that too.
Yeah sounds like you are in a simlaur situation. However i dont think i actually want a relationship as serious as my last one. I just want fun. But i know this can be complicated. I mean having sex with one person and then just remain as friends after is a challenge sometimes. For instance i have moved into a houseshare and one of the girls was flierting with me. She wants the same "just fun"/ We havent had sex but she brings back other men and i also bring back other ladies, and somtimes it feels weird when we around each other. although me and the flatmate flirt and caress each other we have also spoke about sex but came to the conclusion that "because we live together we wont have sex". Howver i think this could easily happen if we have a couple of drinks and we are relaxed around each other. do we stay clear of each other? do we flirt and have sex and then continue as housemates? i dont want a relationship with here and she doesnt want one with me. i suppose we both have high sex drives who just want to shag. what do you do in such a situation? Am i immature and in-experienced for letting emations get in the way? Im searching and its fun but quite complicated to know what the right thing is to do.
Dude, emotions are what make us human, they certainly don't make you immature. Go for it with your flatmate, if you are both clear that all you want is a li'l bit of fun, then that's all you shall have! Life is too short, live it, ENJOY it.
