so I called my new bf today (he didn't have my number) to try and get together this weekend, and he didn't seem all that interested in trying to set up a date or even a hang out together session. Hrrmmm, he knows my schedule's all screwy but he just said he'd call me later (well, he said for me to call him, and I said he can call me too now that he has my number) new relationships are way too confusing sometimes. I'm trying to not be that chick who over analyzes everything, but it's hard at the start, particularly when the guy isn't great at sayin what he feels or wants. stupid female-ness
my advice now is to wait, I know its difficult but he has all your details, don't run after him, if he's interested he'll get in touch, if he doesn't then he's not interested and no amount of running after him will change his mind. how new is he exactly? S
well, he asked me to be his gf on thanksgiving sunday, the sunday that just passed. So really new, not even a week of 'dating'. We've known each other for years though, with alternating crushes on each other that never really timed up right until now. And yes, I like talking about him too much, I've already told nearly everyone I know. I might've scared him off a little though by ragging on him about getting a job (well, getting out of his current job, which is selling drugs. If it was just pot I wouldn't worry too much, that's mostly just fines up in Canada, but the other stuff makes me worry about him getting jail time or beaten up) sigh, I do wanna see him again, and soon... my libido's gone into overdrive (always does at the start of a new relationship)
most men are sacks of shit...... the only reason older ones are often better is they're usually less odiferous.... (total metaphor....)
Sounds like you need to have a very short relationship with him. Get out now before it is too late............ ~namaste~
hmmm well i hope that works out for you...too bad you didnt record the conversation for us all to disect..
Boy am I glad I don't have to deal with that crap. Give him a little bit of time I suppose, and if it's a no-go, say bye-bye babe.
Hummm Ok well get all his drugs-steal them-then get on a trian and come to Woodstock. We will handle the rest from that point.
Maybe the guys just a little shy. You should give 'em a shot. But ya deserve a lotta passion. But sometimes things get hectic, don't go ditching him right away.
no, no he's quite far from shy and I don't want anybody beating him up, thanks anyways. That's kinda why I want him to stop his current job, because he's either gonna go to jail or get the shit kicked out of him over it arrg
