How Young is Too Young?

Ok, I post on this site often, but I ask this question with a phony name, cause it's a difficult one.
I am 30 years old, married and polyamorous.
I find myself most PHYSICALLY attracted to girls around 16-18, and sometimes as young as 14. Not child looking girls, girls who are past puberty by a few years. And I have always thought it normal, but have never revealed it because I don't think many others would think it's normal. My reasons for thinking it's normal.
Well, there was a time when 13 or 14 was marrying age, and if a person has the ability to concieve and bare children, sex must be physically ok.
I prefer a mature woman for a relationship, but I do enjoy looking at young girls. So am I fucked-up? I don't think I'm alone on this really, and 100 years ago it wouldnt be a concern.

 

i think alot of men look at younger girls. they are beautiful ,unscared,so pure and devloping. i dont think theres really anything wrong with LOOKING , but touching is a no no.sorry dont have alot to say on the topic.

 

Castration is the Soup du jour!

 

If you have no problem communicating or relating to females of your own age. I would assume that like crystalstarr says look but don't touch...is prety good advice.

No i don't think your fucked up..just not a young man any more , neither a old man....that horrible age were your taking a look at your sexual appeal...being 28 i think i relate hahahahaha or just talking for myself.

 

Although they are in adult bodies, just always remember that they are still children. As children they need and deserve our guidance...not our lust!

 

Sometimes i think there's a fine line between lust and aesthetic admiration.

 

Don't touch. Absolutely don't touch. No matter what. Don't even say things sexual to 'em.

 

I say get their permission first and then go for it. You only have one life to live.

 

like crystalstar said you can look but dont touch. how I interperted your whole situation is that you could be be more attracted to the fact that young girls are easily manipulated because they dont know any better and they dont know what they want. No one really knows what they want until they are in their 20's. Also most men are attracted to women who look young and some are attracted to girls of the age 13-18. SO really your not fucked up in being attracted to young girls. Just DONT sleep with them or do any sexual acts cuz that is where you become a pedophile and it's just disgusting.

 

You only have one life to live, but so do they. And any kind of affection like that will more than likely screw up their life. I'm at that age (16) and I know for a fact that many 16 year olds get caught up in the mystique and status of being with an older man- whether physically or emotionally. Just don't do it!

 

While I wouldn't follow through on these feelings, I don't believe that it would be pedophilia. While there is a huge taboo, and yes it would fuck with their emotions and what not, a sexually active 16 year old is not a child in that sense. In Canada the legal age is 14, even.
Here's another twist. My wife says that she doesnt think I should even masterbate thinking of a woman who hasn't given me permission to do so, that it's some kind of pyschic rape. What do y'all think?

 

Hang out in front of the Junior High. You'll score one of these days!

 

Why not just PM him with your thoughts on young pre pubescent kids, and how to avoid the police.

 

And I don't think it has anything at all to do with how easily manipulated they might be. It's purely a sensory thing. My theory is that because for most of human existance (perhaps due to a shorter life span) 13-18 was prime childbearing years, and men are hardwired to be attracted to girls of this age.

 

I think your wife needs to loosen up ...You were not high school sweethearts were you ???..

 

Don't be a fucking wimp by hiding behind that lame ass name. This is a serious forum with therapeaudic qualities.

 

so what is your name Bug man .. i must have missed that thread ?.

he is right though..

 

hes obviously a confused lou

hellooo

 

He had indicated in the start of the thread that this wasn't his normal screen name, that's all Missy.

 

and as for you lou.. i dont think that there's anything wrong with you , as everyone said youre safe in your thoughts and think what you will but never act on them, never let it become physical