How to get a girl in the sack.

OK, Im a 19 year old white male. I would consider my self pretty good looking and on hot or not my average is a 9 with like 400 votes being cast. My question is how or what do I have to do to get a girl to go all the way with me. I try being my slef and out going and nice and shit and it just doesnt work. My friend has no problem getting with girls and hes a loud obnoxious mutherfucker. Most of the girls just start to say ur a really nice guy and then just thats the end of it. What do I have to do? I spit mad game at girls, thell them they are really pretty and nice lips and stuff and it still dont work. Any help is greatly appreciated.

 

Its not the quantity that matters, if you want quality, keep being yourself, and heres a good tip. Don't only pay atention to the girls that catch your eye, look for the girls that are checking you out. Since they think your hot they'll do a lot more with you, and being nice to them will really make them happy and be apriciated. Plus, the shy plain looking girls may seem boring, but the dazzle is just on the surface, they look just as good naked, plus shy plain LOOKING girls are way hot and kinky when you get them alone from my expeirience. And their smarter too. Guys who say all woman are crazy bitches think that because to them its true, since they always go after the women who look and act ways that get peoples atention. Of cource the kind of woman whos flirty, dressed up and getting all the atention is going to be spoiled superficial and unfaithful. Just like women who say all guys are dicks go for the loud fake guys alot and assume thats all there is. So trust me, find one of the ones that isnt so in your face, preferable one that liked you first, treat her nice, be yourself, and youll end up getting more lovin that you can handle cause shes been holding all her freak in.

 

Ok il try to find the girls that are digging me but I have this problem that alot of girls have liked me but nobody tells me that they like me. But then I hear that they use to like me. Like this story, there is this girl Daniella and she is soooooo HOT, we never really talked and she was in my senior english class. Well any ways i guess she liked me and wanted my nuts for like 2 months but then she got a boy friend or something and then everybody starts telling me that she wanted me and shit and I had no idea. Ill try reall hard.
Thanks
Tom

 

what is it with guys.....if that girl aint feelin ya then quit while you are ahead...girls like a challenge....act like you dont want her, like you are taken....that's what i like anyways.....but try to be yourself and if she dont like you for you then forget it....she aint worth it

 

Ok heres what you do:

First you talk to the girl for a second, trying to make her feel comfortable.

Then you say "hey whos that?" (pointing out a fictitious rock star, like say...Rod Stewart ).

Then when her head is turned you slip the sack over her head and down to her toes, closing it tight with a rope or perhaps a drawstring.

Works for me everytime

anything else I can do for ya?

 

i know where youre coming from exactly. im not exactly "hot" but i have a "loud obnoxious (and not to mention ugly)motherfucker" of a friend who gets more poon than he knows what to do with. "not getting any" can make you feel downright small. but dont worry about it. for the most part, its bullshit. but heres what i have observed


girls like guys that are confident
girls like guys that got games
girls like guys who dont show fear, insecurity, uncertainty
girls like guys who arent OVERLY masculine
girls like to be made to feel secure.

so what im saying is, bieng nice wont get you nowhere AT FIRST, but once you present yourself and get their attention, thats when you show them youre nice. thats what fucked me up for the longest time. its really that simple, first your a dick, then youre nice. funny isnt it? and the reason your loud obnoxious friend probably gets laid a lot is just that, hes so sure of himself that hes not afraid to be loud and obnoxious. some people just have magnetic personalities, in this day and age , people look for whats entertaining and stimulating. but, on the flip side, those same guys can be coniving, manipulative assholes, and who wants to be one of those? we hate those guys! right? its all about finding the right balance. you gotta listen to her, but dont act like you instantly worship the ground she walks on, or youll look like youre bieng fake nice, just to get in her pants. oh, and a good sense of humor helps too. but if youre not funny, dont try to hard to be. its easy to determine if youre funny or not. just think about it, do u make people laugh?

thats about all the advice i can give. remember tho: sex with no substance can be some of the worst sex ever, dont try to bag girls just to carve another notch into the bedpost, let the chemistry develop by itself, and then play the game. good luck!!

 

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k ill try to do evervything u guys said, im going to the University of Iowa to visit my friend in a couple weeks and we are going to bars, so ill keep ya posted. Hopefully Ill have some good news but well see.

 

Have you tried making out with them and letting it steadilly progress?

 

You have to take it like you own it.

 

hey t-mac, the answer is confidence, that's all. that's why your loud, obnoxious friend has no troubles; he's confident. if you don't have it, you've gotta get it, then you'll be rockin. girls want a guy who's sure of himself.

 

another easy question that deserves an easy answer.

somewhere during the conversation with the chick, just let her know your big.

kinda like... oh yah and im big.

 

hey. theres this girl that has been throwin these mixed messages at me. or so i think. like while we talk online, she tell me to download these slow love songs and to listen to it with her. but then later we never even talk at all. its like i dont even exist. its been like this for like a year now. and i'm getting so confused. every single time i fucking throw myself into it and i get hurt for some reason. ie: she doesnt want a relationship or somebullshit. but then why is she sending me these songs and shit? i try to forget about her and look for other girls, but she just keeps coming back my mind. you think if i act like i dont want her at all she'll be wanting me? i'm confused =[

 

if youre trying to get with a chick just to use her for sex then its a good thing youre not getting any. care about more than just sex and after actually establishing something you might get some. a lot of chicks do actually want to be something to someone before they let them fuck them

 

People act like theres no chicks out there who just want to have some fun and get laid too!

I think you need to be confident, act like u dont want a chick, like if you're coming across as a 'nice' guy, and thoughtful and shit, they'll think of you as someone they would have a long term relationship with, not to have sex with.

You have to have alot of confidence and sex appeal, a good sense of humour (which is what i think your friend has) and THEN really pay attention to this girl, and make her feel special.

Thats what would get me in anyway.

Love Amanda

 

so basically decieve every chick he comes into contact with and use them for sex..

and yeah there are chicks who just want the action too, but by the sounds of things the ones hes coming in contact with are wanting something more, and acting like he does to is just gonna end with him using them and them getting screwed over and hurt

 

Tell them you got coke........

 

WOO HOO! Where do you live???

J/K!

 

atropine, its not that serious....i agree with that one chick with the pink writing, there are stupid girls who just want cock, and stupid guys just want to stick it in something warm. thats not the kind of shit im talking about, but you really can have apassionate night of sex withought "decieving" or "tricking" a girl. i mean people got brains for a reason right? if its real, then let it develop, if its not, then let it go, or the third alternative, which is the best of all is friends with benefits! what happened to free love and all tha hoo-haa? what i see is that most girl fall for guys that are complete dicks, thats the problem. if girls went for nice guys, then "nice guys finish last" wouldnt exist. but thats the thing, girls dont want a guy thats too nice, cuz if youre too nice, it looks like u got no balls. what are u gonna do when someone trys to dick you out of some money? what are u gonna do when some douche is feeling all over your girl in public? are u gonna stand there like " um...i ...really..um...sir..." or are u gonna be like "yo, step the FUCK off!" thats what im trying to say.

 

I have to agree, a woman doesn't want a man that's too nice, because then he seems like a pussy. I know that this sounds cruel, I'm not saying that I like a**holes, but there has to be a certain aura about a guy, that he doesn't take any sh*t off of anyone and stands up for himself (and therefore, will stand up for his girl). As much as women hate to admit it, most of them are still looking for something that can only be described as "The Provider"... a man who supplies sweetness and passion into a relationship, but will totally kick someone's a**, if necessary. Essentially, most women want a well rounded guy, as long as he's still acting like himself. If you're trying too hard to be nice and getting nowhere, perhaps that's why...