parents that are constantly crushing my hopes, and holding me back. with a mom that gets drunk and says hurtful things. with a dad that just cares about not upsetting my mom. how do i get the life i want? i want to be free!!!! they are doing everything in their power to not let that happen! please i just need some guidance please please please... peace and love man
I've had the problem with family members being drunk and verbally abusive. The only solution is, if you're able to, get a job and save money and move out as soon as you can. I don't know how old you are, however, so if you're way underage you might not be able to make such a move yet. But if you do have to stay around awhile, getting a part time job would be a good way to get yourself out of the house plenty, and also you could start a bank account on your own and put your money into it so you could have plenty when you are old enough to move out. It's good to remember that your parents are talking shit. They are not these divine people to be worshipped just because they're your parents - they can fuck up and make mistakes just like anyone. Doing what they are is a huge mistake and it has to be their lesson to learn. You can teach it by standing up for yourself when the time comes for you to move out.
my mom was a drunk with same kind of attitude, eventually you'll learn to see she just takes out her insecurities on anyone she can cause she's a miserable bitch... don't let others define what you can or can't do, blaze your own trails and follow your dreams fuck everyone else at the end of the day its what you think that matters, learn to trust and believe in yourself the rest will just happen naturally.
