Well this isn't really about sex at all-Almost all about love I really like this girl and I havent seen her in about 2 or 3 weeks. Im at college and we were going to try a relationship with her living 20 min away from my college but she told me she didnt thik it was going to workout. Since then we havent really talked as friends for about 2 weeks, its always been about us and how its going to work Anyways, she called me today to ask if I wanted to go to her house for her birthday on monday. Shes having some people over, probably less than 10, to drink and all that good stuff. Their are a few things you should know - She might have a BF now - Everytime she sees me we get alone somehow and she always wants to be with me a few days after - After she sees me and a week passes by, she usually loses interset because we rarely see each other(neither of us have a car) When she fell for me originally like 5 months back, I was a little quieter and didnt speak up that much. The reason me and her orignally got into a fight was because her friends didnt like me and thought i was too quiet and not her type The people that will be at the birthday patry monday are all different friends because she moved from california to arizona near where i go to school. I am wondering if I should be quiet like the way I orignally got her to fall for me, or if I should be talkative and make her friends like me and think im cool Understand, I do both. I can be a quiet kid but I have the ability to talk to anyone(usually I talk way too much when I do this) So the basic question is should I do what I did to make her fall for me(which ended up not being enough because of her friends) or should I be talkative and get her friends to like me so they can tell her what a great guy I am(I should do this if I know she still likes me, but I dont)
If she invited you to her birthday party, I think she likes you. I'd say go and have fun, see if yall get alone together and it'll work out. And If you only live 20 minutes away from each other, find somebody going that way and get a ride.
