How the **** do you tell if she likes you?

So you're regularly seeing and talking to this girl. There is incredible chemistry. She lights up every time she's around you, laughs and engages in semi-flirty behavior. She's pretty shy and blushes a lot, especially when you touch her. Lots of hugs between you two. She wants to know everything about you, but there is no talk or movement towards anything more. She's very shy and never had a bf. What's on her mind? Is the idea just to be patient and develop, or jump in with whatever consequences may follow? Is there any idea at all?

Want to hear from girls particularly, I don't think males have any idea about this topic.

 

One thing that might give you more clues is to watch her with other people and notice if she treats you more specially than she does everyone else.

 

she's had a bf, she has a bf, and you're just a friend.

 

She's Had A BF, It Didn't Work Out....

Now She Has A GF, And Doesn't Want A Man In Her Bed Anymore....

You Are Just A Friend....



Cheers Glen.

 

Sounds like she likes you from what you're saying

But I'm only getting your perspective

 

This is why I said I didn't want to hear from men. You have no idea.

I bet that made your day to say that to a fellow competitor.

It might give clues, but it might not. This is an intelligent research student, and if you don't want to be hurt it is intelligent to not be the one to betray your affections to someone who you're not sure would reciprocate.

 

i seriously doubt we're going after the same woman.

 

Lions are all after meat, and it doesn't have to be the same meat. They are all competitors.

 

i suppose so. either way, i posted what has been the case in my experience when dealing with women who fit the description you gave. it would have felt much better if i could have said "yes, she is going to have lots of sex with you" based on what i've experienced, but unfortunately that is not the case.

 

Well thanks for your input, it's a definite possibility. Of course the limitation is we're both assuming all women are the same, so being able to predict behavior from a short paragraph is ridiculous. The alternative is that all women are the same, which I won't rule out.

 

This is obviously way over my head.

 

typical relationships are composed of 50% men
They are more likely to point out the BS of women anyway



You could, ya know, ask her what's on her mind.

 

I'm with Sarah. Ask her, or better yet try to see if you can take her to some event or social goings on. Make a move, but only if you can handle rejection cause you seem pretty invested in this woman.

 

Lol, yes becuase if you want an opinion on the girls, the last type of guy you whould ask is one not blinded by the gina, sounds perfectly logical to me.

Although to be fair, we'd probably just fuck with your head for the fun of it anyway

 

If you don't want to ask her directly the only thing left to tell you this is by obseration I guess

By reading your observations I'd say she likes you :2thumbsup: Don't see a lot of objective reason to doubt that.

 

Have I missed something? How are all girls 'blinded by the gina'?

Men are better at understanding men. Women are better at understanding women. It's not just biological, it's the similarity of experiences they go through.

 

When she's naked and riding on top of you with her eyes rolled back in her head and screaming like a sex banshee - you still won't know for sure then . . . or ever.

 

Thanks everyone, I hooked up with her last night so I've got my answer :2thumbsup:

 

Sweet, but in answer to your original question. I'm going to offer one simple fact:
Women never make the first move.

 

Oh yeah, girls are very honest and straight-forward about this topic. Plus, they are excellent at putting themselves in a man`s shoes. Talk to girls and you`ll be a pick up artist in no time. lol.