The more men I have sex with, the more sexual routines I've learned from men, the less I am convinced that they like women's breasts. Most men I've spoken to have vowed that whether big boobs or small, breasts are truly loved. Yet when it comes to having sex we start with the lips, kisses down the neck and quick lick and a suck and off they go. Its never for more than a fleeting moment that nipples get attention. Is the focus of sex for men ever really on breasts, could we do without them? ...and then again, yes, I guess it could just be me.
Personally, I spend more than a fleeting moment on nipples, but I think I see what you mean... It does seem like we spend less time on the breasts during sex than male boobie-hysteria would suggest. Maybe the boobs are more about attraction and seduction than actual sex. Maybe they're the colorful plumage that you shake and jiggle at us to make us follow you back to your nests...
I play with boobs too but not as much as I like. My wife is self conches after having kids. Her nips are very sensitive and she does not care for the attention but I like to fuck them. Me on the other hand I love when she bites my nipples while having sex or when she pinches them real hard when she is giving be head. : )
i'd say 60-40.. 60% time spent fondling breasts, 40% everything else. conclusion, I'm a breast lover. big or small, wide or close
Not a 100% or anything, but men are kind of wired differently. When aroused, they go into the *release* moment driven kind of sex acts. IOW's, the brain signals the organ to shoot shoot shoot....!! Again, not a 100% of them, but women like the slower build up of passions to signal the *fill me here* sensation. Thats why, IMHO, when the young are breast feeding, the amount of pressure to get the milk flowing to them, is pretty damn hard on sensitive nipples, so theres no passion, no arousal, (again for most women). However, if men would learn to please a lady like a lesbian lady will, slow, sensitive, lots of feeling, smelling, nuzzeling their skin...(skin is the largest sex organ) massageing their ENTIRE bodies, yes other then the naughty bits, covering them in kisses, and passion. Then ladies will explode with intense orgasm, many times achieving a more liquid type of orgasms. I learned very young, follow some Eastern lovemaking philosphies. The most glareing one, is to *make love lazy* savor the moments with her, take the time to know her body, to know her particular sensitivity levels. Guys orgasms come about by hard, jerking, motions....for many ladies, they respond more to finess type of motions. Guys want to suckel a ladies breast hard, rammy like...they are not tools from the tool box guys, they are butterfly wing sensitive...we (guys) should rethink our love making ways, take it easy, take it slow, and feel her passion, for a change.
I love breasts... It depends how sensitive they are how much attention they get from me.. had a friend once who's breasts had no feeling, like they were numb, but I came to find out she was numb. Another gal loved to have her breasts sucked hard... I'd suck those babies as far into my mouth as I could, I'd feel the nipple tickling the back of my throat, and I loved to hear her moan as I did so...
i've never had a guy spend much time on my breasts at all. as in, never more than 20 seconds. and that's probably 1% of the time we do have sex.
I find sometimes I neglect the neck and body; I love sucking my girl's sexy brown nipples. And she loves it! It could be your perception; how much time would you estimate that they spend? Or more likely, it could be your choice in men. I find most people that haven't settled down date the same two or three people over and over. They may come in slightly different forms, but there's always uncanny similarities. But a third option, could be that you don't seem like you're enjoying it enough, so they move on.
I've read that about 60% of men are more interested in boobs, while 40% are more into ass and pussy. I haven't experienced anything that would cause me to disagree. Girls have to make the most of whatever they've got.
My woman is stacked. But I have to say, I love her ass more. Put together, there's nothing sexier though. When I fuck her doggie style it's great to be smacking that gorgeous ass of hers and watching her boobs bouncing in rhythm...RAWR! <grin>
Wow. This is so surprising to me. I never would have guessed this, but rather, actually would have flipped the numbers. I never encounter boob-men.
I love breast 80% of foreplay I'm sucking on breast wshile doing other things. Cowgirl is our favorite poszition , because she can take control while I squeeze and suck on her breast . Yep , definitly. I like um .
I love breast 80% of foreplay I'm sucking on breast wshile doing other things. Cowgirl is our favorite poszition , because she can take control while I squeeze and suck on her breast . Yep , definitly. I like um .
My favorite spot is the triangle low on a woman's back, right on/below her beltline. Well, ok, my second favorite. Err... 4th...do breasts count once each? 5th favorite. Favorite PG rated spot.
Perhaps your men don't feel like much is being accomplished at the nipple, and decide to move on to the good stuff. Although some girls say there nipples are quite sensitive, and you can get some sensual nipple licking/sucking/nibbling experience, there is defiantly not as much orgasmic quality as down below. I love playing with titties, but after about 10 mins, it doesn't seem to go very far. Its like its more fun for you then it is for her, and it just seems right to move on. If you were wanting your breast to get played with more I suggest you make sure you show how much pleasure your getting out of it.