How many partners have you had?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Nyxin, Sep 2, 2004.

  1. smilez

    smilez Member

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    Make that 12 and hopefully the last!
     
  2. hip_peace

    hip_peace Senior Member

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    one (1} and thats the guy im still with now ....
     
  3. FreeSpirited420

    FreeSpirited420 Member

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    8 guys.
    1 girl.
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    8 regrets.

    I don't regret my boyfriend one bit. I have been waiting 9 years to be with him, and now we are... and talking about marriage. ;)
     
  4. mary0229

    mary0229 Member

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    2 boys that I really love
     
  5. Fallen_stars

    Fallen_stars Member

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    2 girls
    0 guy
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    1 regret...

    But I still don't know wich one is the regret :)....But if FreeSpirited420 have wait 9 years for the guy I hope I will not have to wait 9 weeks to have my answer....
     
  6. i_love_sex

    i_love_sex Member

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  7. BlackGuardXIII

    BlackGuardXIII fera festiva

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    that was my old drinking buddy's estimate at the age of 30. I am sure he was pretty close, he never left the bar alone when I knew him.

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    I envy the many members who are still with their first love. That is cool.
    I also feel that having made love with lots of people is not a bad thing in my view. It is not violent, it is giving, and uplifting. Sex good, violence bad.
    I lost my cherry at 17, and from 23 to 29 I spent 7 years practicing by myself.
     
  8. urbangal

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    How many? I dunno.

    That's propably not a good answer. *raised eyebrow*

    40 guys (might be more than that too many faces to remember; hell did a fivesome once)
    2 women
    1 couple (now the couple I wanna shag senseless is Brad and Jennifer)

    The guys was all before I hit 30. The ladies came after I came out of the bisexual closet. The couple was a poly experiement that didn't work out cause they were a bit...trashy. Nice but, trashy.

    I think all in all, I'd do a poly situation-I like being part of a threesome of loving adults for the companionship as well as the love making. *g*

    urby (the overly experienced womyn who is a virgin to the matters of the heart).
    What is love?-Haddaway
     
  9. greeneyedbaby

    greeneyedbaby Member

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    uno.
    wow, that was like trying to sing after sinatra..LOL
     
  10. luv

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    Oh deary! Since my last post I had 4 guys. So that makes it 21 now. But now I have a relationship, it's long distance but I am faithful if i really love someone, believe it or not. ;)
     
  11. TheLittleOne

    TheLittleOne Senior Member

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  12. Claire

    Claire Senior Member

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    Women, 4...
    men?.. hmm let's just say 5:rolleyes:
     
  13. artful_dodger

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    No worries... I'm not sure either.

    Part of the problem is deciding what counts and what doesn't. For instance, there was one wonderful weekend spent with a couple I was friends with. Lots of cuddling and making out... lots of oral between me and her... he went down on me, but I did not reciprocate (the girlfriend's ground rule).

    By standard definitions, I had sex with her, but not with him. Now, that just doesn't make any sense to me. But, if I count the oral with him as "sex," do I now count every single enounter that went as far as oral sex?

    Bah...

    So, I don't count. I remember just about all of them, and cherish the memories of most.
     
  14. YES I CANNABIS

    YES I CANNABIS Member

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  15. BrokenHunny

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    3 boys- no girls..yet
     
  16. vinceneilsgirl

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    I have slept with 6 men.
     
  17. anok4uok

    anok4uok Member

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    none, : (
     
  18. ki_raven_24f

    ki_raven_24f Member

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    i guy. i girl
     
  19. Robertini

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    I don't know. I didn't know I was supposed to count them or lost count long time ago.
    But then again I'm 34, almost 35.
     
  20. rhasta.penguin

    rhasta.penguin No more hippy...ugh

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    doesnt bother me though, wouldnt want to be with most of the girls here anyway, :/
     

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