How many of you.....

Tell someone who has come up to you to talk, that you have a girlfriend/boyfriend, or wife/husband. Is that the first thing that you tell them, that way they know that you allready have someone/are dating someone?

 

I either make sure they see my ring on my finger, or I just tell them, "Hey, im married, and happy."

 

why do you assume they are trying to have sex with you?

 

not unless they seem to be specifically trying to get in my pants.

 

um, if they ask. if they just come up and say hi and talk to me about, i dont know a game that is on or the weather.. no, b/c that would be kinda silly.

 

I only tell some random stranger if they asked after talking a bit. Good family and friends I will of course tell

 

No, it's just out of curiosity. I have ppl that I don't know IM me on yahoo, that ask to see me on webcam, when I don't even have one. I always tell someone that im married right off the bat that way they know that they wont have a chance with me, if that's their intentions.

 

Oh okay I get ya. I don't ever get perv's like that, thankfully.

 

Most that know me know im unobtainable from the start of the convo....strictly business.

 

Hahah how true.

 

It comes up in the conversation. Like yeah I went to that Concert with my fiance or me and my Fiance saw that show or whatever. There are plenty of places in the conversation where you can mention them.
But most people don't care anyway-most will chat you up even more because you are then unobtainable. That makes you even more desirable.
There is this chick who works in a store in Woodstock and when Rider and I run into her she will talk to me and never even look at Rider. Even though she is right next to me. Totally ignores her presence and I avoid her now because it's disrespectful to Rider.

 

wizarddrew77~that's so cool that you acknowledge the predatory behaviour of the woman who ignores rider. my husband has 'friends' who pointedly ignore me while they flirt with him, and he refuses to notice or do anything about it, even when i say something. i just dont get women like that. bleh.

ps, the fact that i'm in a long term (and somewhat dysfunctional) relationship usually makes its way into conversation pretty early on.

 

Thanks!
I bet if you were at a wedding or function and got up and danced with another guy. He would lose his mind too.

 

I assume everyones trying to get in my pants all the time.

So no, not unless the topic comes up.

Usually I'm trying to throw enough curveballs to make introductions less boring.

Like on a date when they ask what you do for a living, say you take out the trash.

Then five minutes later into the conversation when you're taking about poodles or something, pull out your glock and cap someone. Then say the trash has been taken care of. Pay for dinner then walk off. Tip well too.

Now thats a first impression.

 

yeah same here.

 

That's style!

 

Now I have something to be thankful for....there's a guy in this world who can actually treat his lady like a human being with respect and lets his lady know she means more to him then someone else.....WTG!
Now where in the hell do I find a guy like that?

 

Like anyone's gonna be interested in me anyway....

Hell, I wonder if my own GF is interested me sometimes...

 

I usually tell people, but not because it's a way of warding off pervos....I'm not the kind of girl guys randomly go after. But sometimes it comes up in conversation "Oh, you're in business? My boyfriend is too, where do you go?" OR people will just flat-out ask you, you get those kinds too. Usually women, they're so nosey rofl

thisismike, I hope you're only joking and not actually that hard on yourself Cos we love you!

 

I don't wear a sign or anything. I am not usually in a place where I would be approached anyway....like grocery shopping or Walmart...

I wear my wedding ring, and usually have a kid or both with me.

If I am out for a drink with the girls....I don't assume that everyone wants to have sex with me. Who knows...maybe they do..haha If a guy was obviosly trying to pick me up, I would let him know it wasn't going to happen...