how many guys

ladies how many guys have you slept with? and when would you consider someone a slut?

 

ive made love to 7 guys and im 21, became sexulaly active when i was 16
and slut i think is a stupid ass word, its tossed aroudn way too much... why cant men be sluts too? why isnt is used just as frequently and disparagingly for them? bah.

 

I dont belive that girls are sluts, or guys. I believe in free love, and freedom to make your own sexual choices with out judgment of being a "slut"

 

slut is not a good word to use

 

I call guys sluts. At least the ones that are...

I guess a slut is someone who doesn't care. doesn't care if your married, have someone, if your known to carry diseases... that kind of thing.

 

I'd guess about 30, starting at age 14 in 1969. By the time I was 16 (second guy) I got pregnant and gave my son up for adoption (not an option in a WASP world in 1971 to keep a baby born out of wedlock). So you young gals, be sure and use that birth control!

 

I've been with 9 guys. In my eyes, the word slut is used when people are cheating in a monogamous relationship.

 

two and sluts a stupid word. a womans sexuality is her own business.

 

I have slept with 842 men. I would consider someone a slut if they've slept with 843 or more. That would be gross.

 

5. And a slut is someone who becomes a willing carrier for diseases by not asking their partner about their disease history and not wearing/requiring their partner to wear a condom or dental dam.

 

hey you can ask someone all you want and they could lie to you or even get tested, but not have some STDs show up on the test.

 

16 in over 30 years and I remember all their names

 

just 2 for me. i started in march, haha-at 16.
i think you're a "slut" when you just do it for no reason. if you just felt like "well, he's here, and so am i..." then that, to me at least, is slutty.
my brother said if i'd had sex more than 5 times, i'd be one.
i only told him i had sex 3 times-oh my!

 

I've slept with 15 guys.

I considered myself a slut, but most of these guys, I've had something with.

When I first started having sex, I did it because I was heavy and they were paying attention to me.

There was one point in my life where I was doing a lot of drugs and wanted sex all the time-which is where most of my numbers came from.

I don't consider myself a slut anymore-I know I did all that stuff out of emotion and not boredom.

 

HAHAHA! you rock!


And slutiness has very little to do with the number of guys you've been with. its your attitude and behaviour more than anything.

a woman can sleep with tons of guys and be sexually open and honest and she isn't a slut.

You sleep with my best friends husband and you knew he was married and tehy were goign through a tough time ... you're damn slut!

And teh reaons men aren't branded as sluts is because they all are. it would be like goign on and on about how a zebra has stripes.... now a hippo with stripes... thats somethign to talk about.

 

One guy. I don't know about "slut".


Seriously, if men can lie around and get praised for it, why can't women?

 

I'm a 48 year old guy.
Have had sex with 6 women. (not that this was the question)
But I would also like to add (agree with) that sluttyness is a state of mind.
It is how a woman acts and doesn't necessarily relate to the amount of men she has slept with.

 

I completly understand where you're coming from. I've been with 5. I lost my virginity at 13. I was wrapped up in a lot of drugs and knew a lot of older guys. My first 4 where during that period. It took me a long time to realize that none of them gave a damn about me. That made me feel like a slut.

But I've cleaned up and changed my life around. My guy now is one of the best things to happen to me and I am truly blessed to have him in my life. I no longer consider myself a slut. Just a kid who wanted someone to "love" me.

 

none

and never we can sleep with who ever and how many people we want.

 

I've cleaned up my act, too. I'd say 5 out of the 15 were due to attention/drunken nights. Now, I'm almost offended when one of my old "fuck buddies" expects something from me. I'm a new person.