How mad can you get?

I mean, how mad do you really get? The maddest, top of the pile

smashing things, punching, kicking, setting things afire, yell and others..
or
suck it in, plot revenge, cry
or
do you let everything go? la di da..nothing bothers me, cause I am just cool like that..
or
just hardened to life and the outcomes are expected
or
able to be open and honest and discuss things rationally with others and able to squash any kind of conflict right at the beginning..

 

I haven't been angry in a very long time. I am afraid of how I am when I am angry, there is just this red misted oblivion, where I know I need to destroy anything and anyone, and the consequences do not even enter my mind.

it's terrifying, last time it happened I was so afraid of it I reeled myself back, but what really worries me, is that someday I might get that mad, and want to be that mad.

in consequence I've avoided anger, so far very effectively.

 

I used to fire up a pretty good pisser but I got better. I dont get too mad anymore. the worst I'll do is get real loud. not QUITE yelling but close and it is much rarer than it once was.

 

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Actually, for a while now I've been unable to actually have strong feelings...of anger, happiness, sadness...whatever. I often find myself indifferent.

 

That dont sound so good Piaf.

 

you need to go to a theme park.

 

That's me! I am cool like that...

I guess it really depends what is it that is angering me... A situation, something I witnessed, something negative that happened to me, or something happening to someone I care about... If it has to do with me, I am never angry, seriously, if someone does even the most inane things to me (which has happened) I take it in, and then exhale it out... I try not to pollute my mind with anger...
I dunno, it just depends on what the situation is.. But I am not a yeller, and if I even try to get mad, people laugh at me cause it just doesn't look right...

 

Haha...Why ? How would that help me ?
Not that I need help or anything.

 

good theme parks are some of the best places on earth, roller coasters, thrill rides, and a general atmosphere of merriment.

 

Sounds like a good night of sex to me.

 

strangers don't upset me too much.. if i'm irritable with "road rage" or something i'll say something to myself or somebody who's with me and then it's pretty much over... as long as i can complain to somebody who understands i'm usually good

with ppl who do have the ability to upset me, i always try to talk things out... and if they're not being cooperative i fume in silence, sometimes cry, take a break and then i'm usually okay. i usually have to talk to somebody else about it to get an outside opinion

 

Ummm....I really hate roller coasters. They freak me out.

 

I yell. If I don't get to vent, I might kill someone.

 

i try to let things go most of the time, but if that doesn't happen, i usually yell or throw things, say things i know i'm gonna regret, apologize and discuss things rationally.

 

"Don't make me angry. You wouldn't like me when I'm angry."

 

get in physical fights with who ever I'm pissed at... as long as its a family member.
I used to go nuts and break everything and kick big holes in the wall

 

I used to get really pissed. Smash things, throw things, hit, scream, yell.

Then I realized that my daughter was doing the same things....so I had to adopt a new way. had to realize that nothing is worth that kinda anger or teaching my child that behavior.

Really takes alot to change behavior but oh my god am I am exceptional Goddess because of it

 

i can get fucking furious sometimes...anger is something i tend to hold on to...for a little while anyways...

 

when i get really really really really really really mad.. i can't breath and i pull my own hair out..

 

It depends what it is, I cry sometimes, but only if its my parents.
But probably 90% of the time, i argue and lash out at people. Never physically. That doesn't mean there aren't boundaries, like with my parents, I'd never tell them I hate them and I'd never swear at them. I'm not stupid.
Course If I'm at home and im not supposed to be doing anything i just put some CD on, preferably something like Atreyu, and I calm the heck down.

Watching comedy or just browsing forum also helps.