How long do guys last during sex?

I was wondering how long guys usually last during sex...cuz my bf doesnt seem to last very long...thanks

 

This requires two answers:

1. I spend as long as it takes on foreplay to get a partner off..this will include everything from oral, manual stimulation and some penetration.

2. Once my partner gets off and is left laying in a wimpering exhausted heap, she doesnt mind if it only takes me about 10 or 15 minutes to blast off..and when I am done and rest up for about 20 minutes, I give her another "O" (manually...with either fingers or dildo) and all this together can last for a session of sex in the range of about 1.5 hrs.

 

I've never quite understood why some men come so quickly. Premature ejaculation is supposed to be a huge problem, affecting half of all men (it's partly a psychological thing, given that special concentration techniques can delay the orgasm by a few minutes).

I really don't want to show off or anything, but I can determine myself whenever I want to cum. It's never happened to me that I came when I didn't decide to come.

I've heard that many men know how to control their orgasms too, so I'm absolutely no exception.

So concretely, during sex, I wait till she comes and then I decide to go along with her. It works fairly well. Usually it takes about 15 to 25 minutes for a girl to orgasm if you're only talking about actual intercourse (and after basic foreplay).

So for me, it depends on how long the girl lasts.

 

By the way, I can help you with your bf's problem. I know a few very simple and professional techniques to help him delay his uncontrolled orgasms.

Just let me know and I'll paste those techniques in here. They're fun, because they require you to help him.

 

thanks i would love to kno some good useful tips

 

the actuall penatration??

10 minutes straight and sober.

sometimes several hours high.. depending on what im high on..

 

Too damn long.

j/k, but yeah I can get there in about 10-15 minutes, even during foreplay, but he seems to go until I'm begging for it. I guess that's a good thing.

haha!

 

depends on how high on what you are..

 

Well, neither of us are into "high" sex. I don't remember ever being high and having sex, actually. But I remember feeling high after sex before.

 

most the guys i been with last at least 30 or 45 mins. cept for a few one nighter, but cant ever really hope for much on those any ways.

 

it is kinda ironic that survey after survey say men last like 7 minutes of actual penetration...yet every guy on the internet can last 1.5 hours or more...and only then because his girl has been begging him to cum in her.

something just isnt right. Either there are a lot of one pump chumps and two hour heroes...or there are some fibbers.

 

where did you see that in this thread??

an i can assure you if im drunk i can go till im to tired to go anymore,, an if im coked up or trippin i can go till i cum,, an thats at least 2 hours..

like i said,, an other males here said,, 10 minutes or so sober..

so where the fuck ya come off talkin shit??

who said hours /? unless its drug induceded?

 

I usually have to stop to eat so i dont pass out during sex. if its a weeknight i wont go to work in the morning until im done so i have been late a few times.

 

stop to eat?? been there done that.. man that usually ruins dilligafs mood tho..

 

This all reads like 'In thru the Out door'......


... and it's the Internet.

 

anybody here ever done viagra??

i never have an probably wont for a few more years,, i abuse my body enough without shovin my blood pressure all around with a pill..

but has anyone here?/

how bads that shit?

 

I've found that with them lying on their back, me on top they seem to last longer. NOt always, but it helps sometimes. A bf told me that if they practice holding back when they masterbate it helps during sex.

 

Unfortunately it's the opposite problem with me - something I understand to be due to a known side effect of medication for epilepsy (also known to be a side effect of anti-depressants & beta-blockers). This means that I can take so long to reach a climax that it can be considered, at times, not to come at all. However, whenever I'm masturbating to porn I usually manage to climax within about 10 - 15 mins (which is why I usually look for clips that are of that sort of length).

I can sympathise with those who have problems with Premature Ejaculation, but Post-Mature Ejaculation can also be a problem - to both parties. To the giver, because he doesn't get anywhere, and to the receiver, because she/he ends up getting extremely sore.

As I'm Bi, one piece of advice I give any sex-partners I'm lined up with is that if they're prone to getting over aroused, resulting in Premature Ejaculation, then a simple solution is to masturbate a few hours beforehand - adjusting how far ahead depending on how extreme the problem is. In some cases, when the problem is advanced, then masturbation to conclusion as part of foreplay is ideal, as this increases psychological stimulation, as well as physically sensitising the penile nerves, and at the same time, depleting the seminal load for a lttle while.

 

This question needs to be broken down in to two, I think.

If we're talking about from insertion to hump hump hump to I'm done, it can in worst case scenarios be about 2-3 minutes. Often 5-10.

But I don't think most people have sex like that. I mean, I don't, at least. In fact, I couldn't enter my girlfriend until she was wet even if I wanted to.

There's lots of foreplay. Then there are positional changes. Then there are pace changes. Add that together, and a "session" is more like 30-45 minutes.

 

Here's a sub-question inside this thread: how fast can guys cum while masturbating?

Because I can do it in under 2 minutes, I'm quite sure, in many cases. But that's just about the most efficient form of orgasm possible; I know exactly what I want, there is zero foreplay, there are no pace changes, position changes, or pauses, and I can move my hand up and down my penis extremely rapidly.

I think that's actually pretty common. It doesn't mean that there isn't some variance between men, but I think most of "staying power" comes from your ability to make it last, not from most men's ability to simply hump for 45 minutes straight.