So I've been going to the gym at a different time recently, and me and this one girl are always there together (obviously there's plenty of other people there as well). But I think she's really cute, and I'm pretty sure we're very aware of each other's presence, it's just that neither one of us has said anything. Problem is that at this point, it's been like 10 days in a row like this, and now I feel too awkward to even say anything. How do you casually introduce yourself to someone if you've already seen them a bunch and not said anything? Any useful advice? I was thinking, bumping into her at the water fountain? That's the best I got. Yes, I'm sexy and confident, but sometimes I just lose my mojo haha.
Just ask her to spot you on the bench press. You are at a gym she will eat that shit up. You'll date and you'll be satisfied.:cowboy:
haha...an interesting idea...ask her to spot me when there's like 10 guys available to help me bench? Hmmm..I don't know about that one...I think that actually makes me look weaker haha
''i cant keep seeing you here without introducing myself...it is getting to the point where i see you quite a bit and it feels rude too not say hi''
not sure why there's "obviously" plenty of other people around unless you're working out at peak hours or your gym is a lot busier than the ones i know... well, there may be that result or he may be crushed by the bar.
I always do this too and then after a month or two I'll just start talking like I've known them for ages. >.>
^that doesn't always work though, and it should be stated. Some people really aren't conversationalists at the gym at all and are annoyed when people do attempt to talk to them. Regardless, it's still worth an attempt to try, otherwise you'll never know. Just be honest and cool about whatever happens.
Thanks guys...I actually saw her today but she was just leaving as I got there and I thought I'd have better opportunities than that...I'll keep you updated though on what happens!
well you can just approach her and ask any question related ti gym or body fitness and then you can start with the convrstaion.