How different is being with the same sex?

Hi I'm seventeen,in last year of college and live in London I've been with a boy but I'm really curious about being with a girl. For some reason the thought of it really turns me on but I don't know if I fancy girls? How different is being with a girl or even just the same sex compared to your opposite sex apart from the obvious.

 

hi Lia, hey - if u have desires for a s/s experience and the thought turns u on then u have to go for it and see - don't live your life as a lie and repress your desires.

Maybe once tried you'll reject but u need to investigate.

As to how different is it? - well apart from the obvious genital differences you may find it is a very very different mental thing; you just have to see what your receptors tell u

I was a bit the same once - lost my virginity to a girl at 18 and a year later tried it with a guy as I knew I had a desire. 40 years later I have been mostly hetero in my sex-life but still enjoy s/s liasons.

Good luck, Simon :sunny:

 

I think I was 16 or 17 when I started having thoughts of being with another female. I ended up fooling around with another female for the first time when I was 18. It was a lot of fun, and like Simon mentions, it was a very different mental thing. It was so much different than my first time with a male. Very sensual. I continued dating men and fooled around with a few females until I met my husband. What I've found is that I love sexual encounters with women, but I never found myself wanting to date any of them. Maybe I never found the right one, or maybe it just wasn't my thing. I would definitely suggest trying it, so you don't live the rest of your life wondering.

 

I really want to, I'm just not sure where to look and I know I don't really want a full on relationship with a girl. I just want to experiment I guess and you're right, I really dont want to go the rest of my life wondering lol

 

Do you have any friends that might be curious? My first experience was with a friend. Not a best friend or anything, but someone who I hung out with on occasion. We had talked about our curiosity before and just decided to try it out. It's easy to tell a friend that you're not comfortable or ask them if they like something and we shared a few laughs as well. I'm not sure I would want my first experience to be with a complete stranger, but I have a horrible fear of STDs. It also depends if you want someone that has some experience or if you'd feel more comfortable being with someone who is in the same boat as yourself.

 

No, in fact my friends have openly expressed their dislike for lebians. I'm not to bothered about it being someone I don't know, in fact I think I'd prefer it but then I think a stranger is my only option really.