On a scale of 1-10, 1 having little confidence and 10 being very confident, what would you say you are overall?
going up? oh dear god. im not sure... nvm, nvm... ummm for me... it varies day to day. sometimes like a 2. sometimes a 10.9 it usually is about a 6.5-7.5
My confidence is getting better as I get older. Learning not to care what people think has helped me enormously.
I'd say confidence can only be rated acc to the individual , and the surrounding circumstances and people. I tend to aim for fairly lofty goals , and dont obsess over the short term. When I'm surrounded by shysters and the like , I dont have confidence in the short term , but Im always confident that I can do my best , and get there when the time is right. I'd prob be rated "superconfident" by others , but Im "supercynical" of others.
I hear in your mid-late twenties, your confidence level gets quite the boost. I cant wait! But I do see mine progressing all the time. It certainly must be higher than what I really think it is, because I always catch myself doing things I cant believe Im doing
hm.. I should be getting a confidence boost in the next few years then. that can't be good. you're right about not caring about what people think. you gotta be who you are, and if people like you or if they don't, at least it's you and not some moderated version they love or hate.
Yes, it does also depend on circumstances and the people you meet. Usually I'm fairly confident in most situations, but sometimes feel like a mouse.
umm, it depends on the situation. in most social situations, about 2-3. in pretty much all other situations, 15ish.