Hey everyone, I am new here, but I cant get over this situation. Here it is. I was temping at this place and my co worker and I when we met it was just different then how it was between me and anyone else. We were attracted to eachother. We kept flirting and he always checked me out. I was there for two months. So right before my temp job ended I asked him if he would be a reference. He said yes. Not knowing that my temp job was going to end that day I asked him if we could meet up the next monday after work (I had alterior motives) but this was my chance to get him out of work so we could talk. He agreed and looked happy that we were going to meet outside of work. But that day ended up being my last day. I emailed him the next week and we emailed eachother a few times. We just talked about work related stuff. Like him being my reference, I asked his age and we discussed a little about his upcoming birthday. Anyhow I had the hots for this guy bad. I know he liked me too, but he never emailed me back when I started asking personal questions. My last email to him i asked him questions about what he was doing over the weekend then ended it with talk to you later. I haven't heard back from him I think he know I have a boyfriend butthings are not even working out with us. What should I do. SHould I call him , or email him again? Why did he just stop ?
Personally, I think it's pretty fucked up to cheat on your boyfriend, regardless of how things are going. If a girl was coming onto me and I knew she had a boyfriend, it would turn me off(how do I know she wouldn't do the same to me?), so maybe that's where he's coming from.
Yeah I understand, but he came onto me first. Giving me bedroom eyes and all. He led me on too. Knowing I had a boyfriend. We were even going tomeet up after work. I would break up with my boyfriend for him, I am planing on breaking up with him anyway. I wish he knew this. Why did have to firt so much? I am not that type of girl but I felt a troubling attraction tohim.
some guys only like to flirt. i did that to many a girls that i worked with....i'd flirt, and flirt and flirt and flirt, then she'd try coax me into asking her out but i never would. some times i wanted to, but for the most part, i just LOVE flirting. so your love interest COULD be just a flirt...who knows. either way if your planning on breaking up with your boyfriend, then the relationship is already over and you should end it now. theres no point in going out with someone you 'plan' to break up with
ok, he was just doing it for the fun of it. But I truly believe it was something more. I has been just over a week and I still feel it was more. I guess it wasnt though. If he was serious he would of done something. Do guys flirt with girls they think are cute? I mean I have flirted before, but I have never experienced it to the level he took it too. I mean He would check me out everyday and find reasons to talk to me. What the heck! and for nothing. :H :H
