hey all my bf just kicked me out and he has all my money and belongings.. i could really use someone to talk to. (760) 707-8587
I hope you get some responses ... but just thought I'd post here to say that, legally, he can not take or keep your belongings. Nor can he keep money that you earned at your own job. It is a simple matter of taking it to the police. In many states (I don't know all the individual laws), you'll get a police escort to pick up your things. If this is an abuse situation - please seek a woman's shelter. They will help you do the same, i.e. take your belongings back, try to get your money back, and keep this guy away from you. Most importantly, keep yourself safe. Belongings and checks are not worth more than your life. You can always start over. It will be difficult, but worth it. Anyway, I hope you do find someone with whom to talk. Though, do be careful of posting your personal number online. All I have is a pay as you go phone, so I wanted to let you know here that you're not alone, and you're not the first woman to go through this ... you can certainly overcome this, there is support out there.
i dont really have anything constructive to say, but i feel really sorry for you. im frequently kicked out by my parents so i kno how it feels.hope u et it sorted out.
I wondered what was happening with your situation.Good advice from wonder.Sounds like a fresh new start is a good idea.Some changes we're ready for and some we're not.With lessons learned in life,unfortunately the final exam comes first and then the learning begins.Make your own luck from here on out.
I wish the best for you, and yes, one of my teachers told me that it is a very common problem in this society when husband and wife have a shared bank account etc.. and eventually break up. I really hope in any way that you'll find a better person in your life, i'm sure that you will .
i cant really tell u wat to do but i can sympathise... except it was my mum, not my boyf. i left home cos my stepdad was sexually abusive and not only did she decide not to believe me, she kept everything i couldnt replace like birthday cards etc... she purposely hid them so i couldnt take them... i know how u feel.. if u still have keys go back there when u know he wont be home and take it all
if you do go back to get ur things when hes not there make sure to take someone w/ u. goodluck. ill send some positive healing vibes your way.
