after beating me for years... i have a tazer... think abotu it. a tazer (if you know what they do) and a baseball bat... hmmmmmm
Harming another human being is as bad as harming yourself. You know that. If you really want to hurt him, leave him. If you really want to put a scar in his heart (and his ego), never speak to him again.
instead the options are to walk to your door and open it and close it and never go back. Easy once you get your own head around it and own what you have to do. He only beat you for years with your indirect permission.....you allowed the behaviour ...time to walk then before you end up in jail on assault charges. No blame........but walk while you can and are able to. With love and light........walk away.
Yeah, I bet you like chicken. Y'know. 'Cause you're black. Get it? *sigh* It's so difficult being a racist these days. Well, there's always homophobia! Stupid gays...
You are lucky I can't tase you, you dumass (I think we both know you wouldn't say that to my face) Unlike other people, I believe wholeheartedly in revenge. Fry his ass like a wet cow stuck to a electrified fence
its as hard as you make it out to be trish... your still 23, you have your whole life ahead of you... don't you have a dream to follow or some thing? and i thought jeremy said you would be able to stay at his place
get some student loans Trish, focus on school. You will be broke for a few years but it will be worth it.
Trish- I haven't been around these forums much, and I am not sure if I have read all these posts, but I am going to tell you what's on my mind about all this. It may sound mean, but it's not intended to. My best friend has been with the same guy for 7 years, and he beats her and leaves bruises on her. He emotionally scars her too. She allows this to happen by staying with him. I felt sorry for her at first, but I am beginning to think she is stupid. And if you stay with Dan, then you are stupid. I am sorry to be so blunt, but if you do - then you are. If you are wanting to end your life because of this asshole, then you have a problem. You need help, and I mean it. I am sure you really don't want to end your life, you just want people to tell you not to and to pay a lot of attention to you since Dan only pays you negative attention. He has been controlling your mind. Get away from him. Don't look back, because if you look back, your behind. Don't talk to him anymore, do not answer his calls, because all he is going to do is apologize and beg you to take him back. Then you probably will (just like my best friend does), and things will be okay for a day or two, then he will be back to his normal ways. I promise. He is not going to change for you. He will say that he will, and he will beg and plead. But you have to be strong and leave his ass. If you need to get away, hell, come to Tennessee and stay with me . . . or go somewhere away from him. . . But if you come here (or anywhere else), DO NOT LET HIM KNOW WHERE YOU ARE. Don't try to find another man to help heal your wounds. Only time can do that. I am telling you, DON'T go back. If you do, then you are going to be miserable for the rest of your life. And I swear, it's not going to get better. He is an abuser. They don't change.
Gawd Mr. Bird where do you come up with that stuff........lmfao. anyways, trish, at first when I read your original post the first thing that came to my mind was the movie "the burning bed", then I thought of the movie "i'll spit on your grave." Damn I love the latter of the two.. hella good movie.......hee. I am going to agree with skylie on this one what she said is very true. I know you gave it another chance, he fucked up,now move on! and as you well know, I know how you feel, its a very scary thing to do, but ya gotta do something before he really hurts you more than he already is, or he possibly kills you or something. I hope you realize that if I had my own place you would be more than welcome to come here. in fact my parents wouldnt probably care anyways. (hopefully by thanksgiving I will) I love ya trish, and I am here if you need to talk.