OK, so a little while ago, I told someone I liked him, but nothing came of it, we remained friends and a little while ago, he started going out with his ex gf again. Then, at a Christmas party camp type thing that me and him went to, but she didn't, we kissed. We're both huggy people so that was nothing out of the ordinary, but that was it. He kissed me on the top of the head a couple of times, but when he kissed me on the lips, I told him that I knew he was going out with his ex again and that I coudn't kiss him because she's my friend and everything. He was fine with that, but still kissed me on the top of the head a couple of times. The next day, when I asked him if he was going to tell his gf or not, he said no, but I made it clear I was only asking cos I wanted to know. Then, one week, the other day this was actually, when his gf was in a different room, he kissed me on the top of the head again and said "I love you", but then I had to go home. What does it mean and everything? I really like him. By the way, we all see each other once a week because we are all in the same Explorer unit
The first thing you should do is ask him. Does he like you? Why won't he tell his girlfriend? She needs to know. Even though I'm saying all this, try to put it in an inquiring way, not in an agressive questioning way. If you're sensitive about it, you can get answers from him. But I also think you are at danger of having your feelings manipulated. So watch out and discover for yourself whether he's got true feelings for you and what is realistic given the fact he's got a girlfriend/your friend.
i'd go with what Fex said above. also ask yaself, is any guy worth losing this friend over? a partner can come and go, but its ya friends who are ya home. remember that.
You don't want that kind of love. Run away...don't let it progress. Elsewise the chick he starts cheating on you with down the road will come here looking for advise. Stop the cycle!
You don't want that kind of love. Run away...don't let it progress. Elsewise the chick he starts cheating on you with down the road will come here looking for advice. Stop the cycle!
Ask him why he won't tell his girlfriend and what the story is. I'd be careful, no guy is worth losing a friend over.
I suppose, but I'm closer as a friend to him than to her, and I know it shouldn't matter, a friend's a friend, but I don't want to have this all serious talk with him, then lose his friendship over it.
Hes trying to get into your pants while he keeps his girlfriend. That is all. A friend would not put you into this kind of situation. Pull back out of this friendship.
maybe he wants fallback in case something happens with his gf. He's a losser or confused. either way is not good for you.
