he's 28 and ..me, 16

i moved away from his state. But i can't forget him. it was not a fairy tail, it was unforgettable period of my life. My friends called me Lolita.. but i don't think it was problem. i could make him the happiest man in the world... I moved away, i didn't eat and sleep. I gave him my heart and now im heartless, i think about him all the time, i can talk about him for hours. Well...Another human tragedy

 

kinda sounds like the situation im in except I'm 17 and he's 27 and we live 3000 miles away, but plan to be together in a year or so when our families can accept it

 

Are you still a couple or did you break up?

 

Everything will work out if it's suppose to.

 

Ann A-kim & Knowledge Rocker: The laws against being intimate with underage partners are there for a good reason. If you're dating & kissing (& doing even more) with guys who are that old, then I'd say that those older guys are not very honorable. They should respect the law and you, and thereby wait until you're at least 18. If I were you, I would not trust them. Good luck.

 

My husband and I were in the same boat. I met him when I was 13, he was 23. We stayed best friends until I turned 18 and then we got married, here I am in the military, married, and on my own. Are you still together or did you break up or what?

 

My sweety and I have not done anything yet. We're waiting until I am of age, and even then he is going to wait until I am ready before doing anything I wouldn't be comfortable with, he's even going to meet my parents.

 

I feel sorry for these older guys hitting on pre-teen/teen girls. That is just sad. They must be really fuckin desperate....or messed up in the head.

 

Good way to handle the situation(knowledge rocker), i ended up elopeing and my aunt whom I call mom came to visit me in wa with her boyfriends and my cousin and her boyfriend. I forgot to take my marriage certificate off my wall and that is how everyone found out. But they didnt mind all that much...

 

I like how the females are pro and the males are con.

Sounds like sour grapes to me.

 

Who said anything about them hitting on us? If you must know I am the one who pursued him, and I've known him for more than a year now.

Just because a guy is older than the girl doesn't mean he's a sick pervert. While alot of guys out there are that doesn't mean EVERY guy is.

To the person who started this thread, if you don't want people to reply telling you how you're too young (i used to get alot of that) and how he cant be trusted dont post it on the forum but you can PM me any time if you want to talk.

 

^^I used to get a lot of that also. My parents tried to get him in trouble with the cops but couldnt prove anything (there was nothing to prove). I really didnt care how people responded to me telling them, it was my life and there was nothing they could do to change my mind.

 

we broke up

 

I don't get it why older guys want young girls.. But I might be just jealous, if all guys that age like 16 year old girls there will be no left for girls my age. But then again, I wouldn't want somebody who lusts after teens.

 

Why is it always looked at like that, the guy wanting the younger girl? What about us younger girls who like older guys? (that is how I met my guy by the way)

And part of the reason I and other girls like older guys is because they arent immature and rude like high school guys or guys our own age who only want sex. Sure there are some creepy older dudes out there who also want nothing but sex but you can usually pick those ones out, and if not, well its good to be cautious anyway.

It took me a year to even let my guy call me on the phone, and even now I'm still very cautious, so there really isnt anything to worry about as long as the girl (who is usually more vulnerable) is careful.

 

^^well said KR. I think people look at it like the older guy is always going after yournger girls when in some cases it is vice versa. Girls Mature a lot faster than guys and that was the main reason I chose to go with my older husband, I wanted to settle down early in life and he was the perfect one.

 

it's a little creepy to me. I mean, I'm 19 and I think that a 28 year old is gonna be too old for me. Even 26 is pushing it, and I'm a crotchety old bitch for a 19 year old. There just doesn't seem to be enough in common in those ages, too many differences to really truly connect on a day to day level with that other person.

 

You can't generalize, it depends entirely on the individuals in question, not the entire age group. I used to think I would only date guys my own age, but then I met my sweety and unlike most guys he was different, he was just like me in so many ways its incredible. I dont think age matters when it comes to what two people have in common. We grew up sort of the same way and have alot of the same opinions on things so naturally we just sort of grew together over time, started out as just friends and now we're going have him meet my parents so they know he isnt just an old perv and really wants to be with me.

 

you know what's really creepy? open relationships.!! and what if he understands me more than boys of my age?

 

Well I would probably think that way too, but then along came a special person and regardless of his age he's everything I want in a guy and we're still going to wait a whole year (we already have too) before we get together because I'm still underage and he wants me to be comfortable living with him, which I'm all for.

Not to sound careless or anything but if he really wanted to rape/kill/somethingelseevil me, he could have done so by now as he's had my address for over a year, and *gasp* I'm still alive, (not that the world would miss me if I werent haha) so not all older guys are just out for sex.