I am only young and have been masturbating since the age of 8 (I didn't even know I was back then). But I have never actually been able to reach the point of an orgasm or anything. I have tried many methods like: The pillow method Penetration of the vagina Rubbing Clitoris etc. But I've never been able to make it work D: And I know I'm far too young to look at porn or buy toys. Can anyone older and more experienced help me? What works best for you? -- I'm also to afraid and nervous to tell my parents/siblings/friends, so the internet is the only thing I can turn to. I can't tell my teacher either.
im like you, i dont like to talk about sexual stoof aorund peeps i know, i kept it too myself, but being a guy, i wudnt know how to jack a female off, i have never dun it, dont know how u cud do this, but u cud try to get a vibrator or use sumhing to act as a penis to insert into you vagina
I reckon that if you were to approach your Mother or an older Sister in a mature manner you might well be surprised at their reaction. You can be certain that they will, themselves, be fully familiar with masturbation and if you act in a mature manner in the way you approach them, you will be treated accordingly. You say that you are young, implying that you are still at school, so you could approach one of your teachers, who will be trained in speaking to pupils about such things in total confidence, or you could even speak to your family GP - someone else who can be guaranteed to give reliable information with 100% discretion.
You should try the porn, you aren't that young.Try to find out what really turns you on.Rubing the genitalia isn't enough to reach an orgasm, you have to be turned on. Good Luck
Thank you all very much I shall try to confront my mother with my situation, but I will be very nervous.
I'm also very young, and would also like help reaching an Orgasm. I've done it once or twice before, and it was wonderful but I cannot bring myself up to doing it again. I'd like to ask what the "pillow method" is. If somone could PM me explaing it that would be great. Or you could just explain here. Either way. I don't really have any tips for you. I just Orasgmed, by playing a sex game online.
The pillow method is simply a case of rubbing the underside of the penis (which, incidentally, is the most sensitive part for stimulation) against a pillow / cushion & possibly fantasising that the pillow is a sex partner. You don't say whether you are male or female, but if you happen to be female, I imagine the same sort of method could work, by rubbing the pubis / clitoris against a pillow / cushion in the same way.
